Ever find yourself swiping left in a world where right swipes seem as elusive as a love potion in a muggle's world? Our latest heart-to-heart with the formidable Special Guest Ling Ling (@Khaimalago) takes you through the maze of modern love, where the compass points to online profiles instead of serendipitous coffee shop encounters. We tackle the transformation of courtship etiquette, the digital masquerade of dating apps, and the quest for a connection that goes beyond the screen. As we share our own misadventures in love & the sobering moments where we found ourselves longing for a spark amidst the sea of profiles, Ling Ling weighs in with her female perspective, dissecting the digital age's imprint on romance.
Roll up your sleeves; we're getting into the nitty-gritty of attraction & relationship dynamics, and it's not just the butterflies in your stomach kind of talk. From the "bad bitch" craze affecting both sides of the gender spectrum to the allure of physical strength and the power dynamics it plays in a relationship, we don't hold back. We celebrate the genuine connections that weather the storm of busy schedules & text message small talk, sharing tales of efforts that paid off and others that taught us valuable lessons. The cold season's search for warmth fuels our discussion on the chill that can fall over relationships when effort dwindles, driving home the point that real affection is a two-way street.
Strap in for a rollercoaster of emotions as we navigate the gnarled pathways of sexual compatibility, the contentious debate over monogamy, and the uncharted waters of social media's impact on our love lives. Our guest's personal story of a romance with a professional soccer player that crashed harder than a missed penalty kick serves as a sobering reminder of the financial inequities that can strain a partnership. As we wrap up, we dish out advice for all the love seekers out there, championing honesty, resilience, and a dash of divine patience. Whether you're bench pressing your way into someone's heart or sliding into their DMs, this episode promises a raw, laugh-filled journey through the modern labyrinth of love.
*Comparing First Encounters
*Discussing Dating Apps & Relationship Goals
*Effort & Attraction in Relationships
*Relationship Preferences & Gender Dynamics
*Modern Dating's Impact on Gender Dynamics
*Social Media's Impact on Relationships
*Relationship Drama & Financial Imbalance
*Sexual Experience & Lack of Education
*Sexual Compatibility & Relationship Expectations
*Communication in Intimate Relationships
*The Reality of Relationships
*Relationship Dynamics
*Discussion on DMs & Fame
*Views on Marriage & Divorce
*Relationship Advice for Men and Women
*Intro Beat Credit: Memnoc (Picasso)*
*Outro Beat Credit: JJ got Beatz*
Ever find yourself swiping left in a world where right swipes seem as elusive as a love potion in a muggle's world? Our latest heart-to-heart with the formidable Special Guest Ling Ling (@Khaimalago) takes you through the maze of modern love, where the compass points to online profiles instead of serendipitous coffee shop encounters. We tackle the transformation of courtship etiquette, the digital masquerade of dating apps, and the quest for a connection that goes beyond the screen. As we share our own misadventures in love & the sobering moments where we found ourselves longing for a spark amidst the sea of profiles, Ling Ling weighs in with her female perspective, dissecting the digital age's imprint on romance.
Roll up your sleeves; we're getting into the nitty-gritty of attraction & relationship dynamics, and it's not just the butterflies in your stomach kind of talk. From the "bad bitch" craze affecting both sides of the gender spectrum to the allure of physical strength and the power dynamics it plays in a relationship, we don't hold back. We celebrate the genuine connections that weather the storm of busy schedules & text message small talk, sharing tales of efforts that paid off and others that taught us valuable lessons. The cold season's search for warmth fuels our discussion on the chill that can fall over relationships when effort dwindles, driving home the point that real affection is a two-way street.
Strap in for a rollercoaster of emotions as we navigate the gnarled pathways of sexual compatibility, the contentious debate over monogamy, and the uncharted waters of social media's impact on our love lives. Our guest's personal story of a romance with a professional soccer player that crashed harder than a missed penalty kick serves as a sobering reminder of the financial inequities that can strain a partnership. As we wrap up, we dish out advice for all the love seekers out there, championing honesty, resilience, and a dash of divine patience. Whether you're bench pressing your way into someone's heart or sliding into their DMs, this episode promises a raw, laugh-filled journey through the modern labyrinth of love.
*Comparing First Encounters
*Discussing Dating Apps & Relationship Goals
*Effort & Attraction in Relationships
*Relationship Preferences & Gender Dynamics
*Modern Dating's Impact on Gender Dynamics
*Social Media's Impact on Relationships
*Relationship Drama & Financial Imbalance
*Sexual Experience & Lack of Education
*Sexual Compatibility & Relationship Expectations
*Communication in Intimate Relationships
*The Reality of Relationships
*Relationship Dynamics
*Discussion on DMs & Fame
*Views on Marriage & Divorce
*Relationship Advice for Men and Women
*Intro Beat Credit: Memnoc (Picasso)*
*Outro Beat Credit: JJ got Beatz*
And dating is one thing, but then, like you want your future wife to get ran through by like half the world, half the city, you cool with that?
Speaker 2:No, so, no, I'm not cool with that.
Speaker 1:No, no, don't worry, don't worry, it wasn't all at once, it was spread out.
Speaker 2:You guys can give them okay with the raw, but it was spread out.
Speaker 1:Not 100 dudes all at once, but just spread out. Most guys are not okay with not the same thing, high body counts.
Speaker 3:Isn't that like the same thing? It's like I like the same thing and hypocrites.
Speaker 2:Wow, hypocrites. All right, let's get into it. You just get into it. You don't want tough up with us. You don't want tough up with us. You don't want tough up with us. You don't want tough up with us. And welcome back to the conversation that never ends. This is Timeless Talk. I'm your host, AJ, and to my right, as always, we have Slideshow. Oh, I don't have my line. Oh, you want it. You still want that? Sorry, guys, everybody needs to shut up. All right, cool, I feel like I'm in my head bro.
Speaker 1:That's so wonderful, don't you just feel like posting a cleric.
Speaker 4:Oh hell.
Speaker 1:no, I'm like some shit makes sense now. Oh hell no.
Speaker 2:You know what you say to post nuts, it's not cleric.
Speaker 3:Oh, we're here, we're here, same time Sensation, sensation.
Speaker 1:Like future sensation.
Speaker 2:Anyway, to my left, we have the special guest with us today. You guys, it's going to be Ling Ling.
Speaker 1:What inspired the name? What inspired the name?
Speaker 4:It's my eyes.
Speaker 3:Really.
Speaker 2:You're going to start off with the racial stuff already. Hey, we got to break the ice somehow right?
Speaker 1:Hey, we're going to be racist on this, but I'm just saying Let you all know viewers, discretion is advised.
Speaker 2:We have we're international right now.
Speaker 3:So we are talking about OK.
Speaker 1:That's true. That's true, she's right.
Speaker 2:OK, so we have Ling Ling in the building with us today. Thank you, ling Ling, for being here today. You know what I'm saying Got love from the crowd. Have he's feeling you? So we love the Asian persuasion. Ok so you're going to bring us a female perspective to today's topic.
Speaker 4:I will do my best.
Speaker 2:We appreciate that.
Speaker 4:I will do my best so she's supporting all the women watching this she's supported or she's your advocate today. I'm a representative, so representative.
Speaker 1:I like that. Ok, so comment or something, how she did.
Speaker 4:I got y'all.
Speaker 2:Let her, let her know in the comments, guys, because she is going to watch this to see how it came out. All right, so today's going to be about I don't want to just say just relationships, but it's going to be talking about first encounters mostly, really mostly, most like I guess I could say more so about first encounters than dating. But she is going to give you, give us, her female perspective on that. As far as how do you feel about first encounters, how they are today, in 2023, as opposed to the way they were back in, not so long ago, yep, where everybody would just meet each other which they still do nowadays like in a bar and a social setting.
Speaker 4:You started with the bar. What are you supposed to mean at the bar?
Speaker 2:first, Well, now he's a bar. You know, it could be a bar, it could be a breakfast place, it could be. It could have been where you could look like an example. Today, y'all have breakfast before the show, right? Ok? So someone could have walked up to your table and thought, hey girl, you know what? You caught my eye when I walked in. Maybe some cheesy shit like that. But they might have followed up with something that might have led you to giving them your number Right, possible, yeah, see, so if they say the right thing, you see what I'm saying. So that's how it used to be back in the day, when the apps weren't an option.
Speaker 4:You see what I mean. It's how you present yourself, exactly so first encounters.
Speaker 2:We'll be talking about how. Do you prefer it back then, how it used to be, which is what I example just gave you, or swiping less, swiping, right how it is now?
Speaker 4:So I tried both right First encounters. I'm not really good at them because I don't go out a lot. I don't go out a lot. I don't be going out in bars or don't be going. If I go to a restaurant, I'll be probably with my best friends. And we usually just keep it to ourselves.
Speaker 2:That's fair.
Speaker 4:You get me. And then now, like, since I've been single for almost, like I would say, three years now, because I would not count, the last relationship Maybe not.
Speaker 2:You don't count it.
Speaker 4:I don't count it, I don't count it.
Speaker 2:We're going to get into that in a second, it's just like three months. But anyways like yeah, so was there your last serious one?
Speaker 4:Yes.
Speaker 2:Three months Okay.
Speaker 4:I see Interesting.
Speaker 2:I mean, I mean, can we hit walls?
Speaker 4:I know I don't. I don't like dating apps too, cause, like I feel like it doesn't lead anywhere. I have from dating apps I have like now, friends, not, it didn't actually lead into something.
Speaker 2:Do you think that's because people's intentions on those apps are usually just?
Speaker 4:to hook up? Most likely. Yeah, it is, it is.
Speaker 2:And would you say you're at the age. You don't disclose what your age is, but would you say you're at the age now where you would want something serious as opposed to something.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I've been wanting to settle down, I've been wanting to have just my person. But you know, like we were having a conversation earlier like how are you going to find your person if you're not going to try? You get me. You're not trying, but you just like have to be open with it. You mean, that's, that's how I am, I'm. It's not my priority at this point or at this moment, but you know I'm talking to people.
Speaker 2:You're not closing the idea off. Yeah, if you meet someone, right?
Speaker 4:then you're interesting enough. I'm already at that age, we're 27. 27 27.
Speaker 2:Yeah, at least you said it for everybody 27. I mean, I'm not that much older, I'm 31. Yeah, so that's not too bad.
Speaker 4:But it's different for you guys and it's different for females. I think that's why we have that pressure to someone.
Speaker 2:That makes sense and you guys are more on a clock. Honestly, the men are cause. Men can have babies all the way up to 45, 50.
Speaker 5:More than that, if you have 60 years old, 70 if you wanted to 80 years old.
Speaker 2:I mean the swimmer still swim Exactly. Speaking of that, you guys ever hear about what happened to Al Pacino and Robert De Niro having their 80 something and they just had babies with 20 year old girls? Yeah, Bro.
Speaker 3:The baby's not even going to live.
Speaker 2:They're not going to live long enough to see the baby turn 10 man.
Speaker 1:That's if the baby don't come out special 80 years old man, isn't that crazy?
Speaker 2:So you asked I want to make this. I usually try to make this about the guests a little bit when they first come on, so the audience can get to know you a little bit better.
Speaker 1:Of course, you can ask stuff too, though.
Speaker 2:Yeah, of course you can absolutely ask us whatever you want to ask, but we just kind of like to bounce off and let them know who you are first we have to answer. So, whatever you ask us, we have to answer yes, whatever.
Speaker 4:Whatever?
Speaker 2:Whatever, yeah, look at her face Y'all. She's already getting ideas. She's like I hope y'all are ready.
Speaker 1:Hey, but just just know, if you ask something once we answer, we also ask you to answer.
Speaker 2:We usually flip it back on you. Yeah, whatever you're going to ask us, we usually flip back on you, like I?
Speaker 4:said I'm very, like, you know, open. I'm very like, straightforward too, you guys don't have no problem with that.
Speaker 2:Okay, no, no, that's going to work out Just fine.
Speaker 4:I'm just, you know, I'm just going to like whatever I say. You know, feelings were hurt. That's all on you guys.
Speaker 2:Okay, Fair point, Everybody that watches time to talk they got. They got relatively thick skin, right?
Speaker 4:So you guys, if you guys watch this, and I say something is going to hurt your feeling, keep it to yourself.
Speaker 1:It's mainly women that watch, though yeah, it is Mostly women that watch After this she said that might change After this.
Speaker 2:I don't know, it might change. Well, you know what, like I said, it's a topic that's interesting. We love people. We're going to have something to say about it, you know? Um so, relationships, right, you said that you prefer. You prefer, obviously, the whole serious thing. You don't want to use apps because you feel like people are just there for one thing. Did you not take any conversation on there seriously?
Speaker 4:Like I said, like I've tried. So I'm not closing no doors, I'm trying. Like I've dated, I use a bumble, I've used hinge before. I don't use Tinder for the reason being it's just you know what tender is at the.
Speaker 2:Everybody knows what.
Speaker 1:So you both had tender.
Speaker 4:I never had tender just because of that reason.
Speaker 2:Oh, before I knew any better. I used it but yeah, I learned afterwards why is it like good to use it in the reputation.
Speaker 4:Cause bumble. You choose who you want to talk to.
Speaker 2:Yes, different right it's the guys way.
Speaker 4:Yeah, so bumble's a little bit different. So if I really don't like you, like that I was told bro If I don't you, if I don't find you attractive or what your profile, it doesn't interest me at all. I'm not going to start anything, or I'm not even going to like you or they want to waste your time with them Makes sense Like they won't.
Speaker 2:They won't get your time wasted If you're not even feeling that person. They want to show you the profile, yeah.
Speaker 1:So how is that different than what guys do?
Speaker 4:No, the thing is like yeah yeah, you know?
Speaker 1:no, let's get into it. How's a guy wrong when, when he steps up to a woman because how she looks? This is why you just said the same thing.
Speaker 4:Remember I asked you earlier, like, how do you feel like when it's the woman now it's it's the woman's turn now, pretty much like staring at you right. Exactly Like how would you feel if like a woman's like okay, like you know, giving you that stare that you guys do to females when you like that person?
Speaker 2:I don't have a different reaction.
Speaker 4:Bring it on.
Speaker 2:Exactly. Yeah, I'm saying bumble.
Speaker 4:It's different because, like it's us who initiate the conversation first. But, but I thought they would like your profile. They would like your profile first, but then, if you don't like them back, you know they won't have any access to you. I guess.
Speaker 1:I guess, I can see. I can see what their intentions is. I don't agree with it, but that's pretty much what it is.
Speaker 4:It's more of like physical instead of like how are you really are as a person, oh that's fair yeah. You're only going to put like, oh, what's your interest? What are you looking for? You know what are your hobbies and whatnot, but this still does not answer what kind of person you are until you actually, like you know, get to know this person. That's why I'm not closing no doors because, baby, it's a lonely world out there.
Speaker 1:So lust is the topic.
Speaker 4:It's not. No, no, no, no. It seems like that's what you want to talk about. Is that what you want to talk about?
Speaker 1:No no let's get into it. Here we go.
Speaker 2:He's talking about a topic from like two episodes ago. Break it back, no because that's what it is right.
Speaker 1:So she got to see him. Yes, look good, then you what you like his page and then he has to like your page back, or how does that work?
Speaker 2:How does that work in the females perspective, since we're talking about the app, we're talking about the app now. We're not really less Okay.
Speaker 4:Honestly. Of course you have to be at least attractive to our eyes, not like you don't have to be like you know 10 out of 10, you just have to be attractive to our eyes, because that's what it is Like most female doesn't like guys that are very good looking, because you know what comes with it Emails girls. No, no.
Speaker 2:You like a guy a little bit uglier than.
Speaker 4:I'm saying is like I just want him to be attractive for me.
Speaker 2:Enough for me to be a you know where you feel like he won't be like talking to you and like five other girls at the same time.
Speaker 4:No, no, no, I'm saying it's like no matter, no matter what it is. If it's like I would find some guys attractive, but do I want to talk to this guy? No, I don't. But if I find you attractive enough to be like, all right, you were, you know you're a very interesting person, then I'll talk to them.
Speaker 1:So then that's, that's conversation, then, right? No, no, really so much of looks.
Speaker 4:No, yeah. Okay, so the conversation, how I get along with the person. You get me like how the conversation goes, because nowadays they think effort is them texting you.
Speaker 2:That's effort.
Speaker 4:Tell me I'm lying.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, she's not wrong. Tell me, I'm lying Y'all out there thinking that that's enough, that's enough effort. You really think that? Like you really really think that, then that means. I mean you played yourself and it's part of it, but it's not effort, though.
Speaker 4:I mean no, it's not effort. But it's consistency. Again, congratulations, you played yourself. It is effort, it is effort, good morning and good night.
Speaker 2:That's a little bit of effort, though that is effort, she's like what? Nothing in between? Well, no, there should be some of it.
Speaker 1:Why? But you guys are saying, that's not effort at all.
Speaker 2:No, no, I agree that it's effort, but I will see where she's coming from too. She's saying that if that's all you do, and then you're like, hey, you hit her up like at a ridiculous hour, like, say two, three in the morning, she knows what you're trying to do. Okay, I didn't hear from you all day, but now you just want to.
Speaker 1:I work right, right. Is that what you're getting at? That's what she's getting at. Some of us work graveyard here.
Speaker 4:I work graveyard, so you're not the one to talk.
Speaker 2:Oh, you know what she means. Come on, bro.
Speaker 4:Come on. But I mean I think you're water, go ahead.
Speaker 1:It depends, it depends, it depends. She said don't mind. But then, but then some people they're not, they're not like uh take savvy, but then in person they give you the time of day, though, yeah.
Speaker 4:But that's how you filter who you like and who you don't like. That's true too.
Speaker 2:You know what? Look, I agree with you as far as what we were saying, right, honestly, like effort, if you really want to make something with that person, right, you got to be more than just a high and goodbye.
Speaker 4:Exactly.
Speaker 2:And you can't just think, just because you texted her all day, you're going to get it either. Let's be real and that's I feel like, unless you two are on the same page. You've already gone on dates, You've been out. You know what I'm saying. You've been with each other intimately in the past. Maybe you could get away with that.
Speaker 4:Right, and you have to feel the vibes too, of course, like it's always, it always have to be there, or not always, but you have to vibe with that person, because no matter if that person keeps on texting you, and if you don't vibe with that person, you're just going to get annoyed. That's true.
Speaker 6:You get me like why is this person?
Speaker 4:Why is this person texting me?
Speaker 2:Well, they're trying to force it. That's another thing If they haven't texted you back, bro, it's probably for a reason Either they're busy or you're trying too hard, or there was never a genuine connection to begin with.
Speaker 1:And you're that guy I mean, I'm just saying the system's rigged, Trust me.
Speaker 4:Like as busy as I am and ER, if that person texts me, can you hold on a minute Like I'm a terrible?
Speaker 1:back, like you, know, she said she's texting the charge nurse.
Speaker 4:But that's how it is, though. Like that's, that's what effort is you get me like? I'm not going to believe you when you tell me like, oh, I've been busy for the eight freaking hours and you have not been on your phone for eight hours.
Speaker 3:What about? Temptation steps in and you're having that feeling because that one person you just wanted to taste texts.
Speaker 1:you, he said the person you wanted to taste that's crazy.
Speaker 2:She's like come on bro Okay. So all scary, all scary effects aside, all creepy temptations away, Also aside, when you get that well, I guess what I was getting that when I asked you that question was when you got, when you get a text from that guy that you were feeling, do you make him wait or do you give into what he's, what he's?
Speaker 4:throwing at you Like if he's asking for something booty.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 4:That's what you're asking.
Speaker 2:I was asking that and this voice, because it's kind of tempting.
Speaker 1:Go ahead.
Speaker 2:I couldn't have the same effect in this voice.
Speaker 4:I would not take it seriously. Exactly yeah.
Speaker 2:So when temptation shows itself, like you would totally if you just didn't care, you're like fuck it. I feel it too. Did you just go with that, or do you wait? You still make him wait anyway.
Speaker 4:See honestly. I don't I don't do it If I'm not interested with you, like if I don't feel no type of connection with you, because you know how they say like oh, females is very different when it comes to that, because they want to be attached first. They want to have like an emotional connection and whatnot. Like this time of the year and this generation you talking about Christmas Okay.
Speaker 3:Let's just put it that.
Speaker 4:It's cold right now. Yes, it is.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's what you're talking about, got you Got you.
Speaker 4:Okay, Everybody's trying to get some. I don't know what's happening. Is that how you?
Speaker 2:is that how you whoa, whoa, yo he's, he knows that to me. Hey you bro.
Speaker 1:The gun you know, let's get into it, Yo, I mean wait wait, wait, let's miss it reboot real quick.
Speaker 2:You're loaded up what we got here. Wait, wait, wait. Was that a shot from you to slide show, or did I read that wrong?
Speaker 1:Yeah, what is that that's what that's, even though it's gotta be.
Speaker 2:Okay, so wait. I said yeah.
Speaker 4:So what really? What you? You? You said December and I said okay, it's cold right now?
Speaker 2:Are you trying to warm up with Ling Ling or what's going on here?
Speaker 1:First of all, look, hold on. First of all, you said it's this time and I'm thinking you doing a Mariah Carey. Hold on for Christmas, because I'm trying to jump just thinking you talking about what you you said it was cold season and then, and then, like maliciously attacking me for no reason, because you and I both know that it's cold and you're lonely. I'll be thinking, I'll be thinking, I'll be thinking, I'll be thinking people should be messing around with that.
Speaker 2:Is that to each other, or are you just saying in general?
Speaker 1:No see, look, I mean, I will, I don't know, I think only I'm not going to say only girls thinking about that, but it's like that's, that's. I think only women do that. For females it's more of like we want up.
Speaker 4:we want somebody to celebrate holidays with Cause, like it's, like it's like you don't want to just warm up in that way he want to get.
Speaker 2:yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 1:No, but then. But then you know, you do hear girls say that a lot like oh it's. You know it's cold season, get you a big deal, or whatever. Guys, don't do that.
Speaker 4:It's coming season.
Speaker 3:It's girl bro.
Speaker 2:I mean, I guess you're being she's being honest at least right? That's what we can ask for here at Time, and Stock is for honesty.
Speaker 4:All right so yeah, okay.
Speaker 2:So, as we, as we, as we continue, she wants a big boy man, she wants someone to keep her warm. No, discrimination. Now she's not saying, she wants a big, big boy.
Speaker 4:I mean I saw that big boy, not a big big boy.
Speaker 1:That's crazy. You ain't never going to hear no dude. I mean, let me stop Wait, hold on, brr, brr, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2:I had to remember what matters.
Speaker 1:I had to remember what matters.
Speaker 6:That's crazy, bro. How was it I?
Speaker 1:don't know how was it that you know women are so like open to that, but then guys are.
Speaker 4:No wait, what do you?
Speaker 1:mean Like, like, they really don't. They generally don't mind like a, like a big dude, but they're like yeah, that's true, Like I like.
Speaker 2:Yeah, guys don't really want a big girl, it's not the same for us. If we don't want all the extra unless it's in the why can't say that Unless it's in the right places, there you go. Exactly, if you have the extra in the right spots, we'll deal with that.
Speaker 4:Hey, we all have our wants and needs.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 4:That's what it is.
Speaker 2:That's exactly what it is.
Speaker 4:I cannot ask. I don't know if you guys go on my page or get me like if they put it over there.
Speaker 2:I'm going to be up here.
Speaker 4:They're going to. They're going to tag me or whatnot, If you see on my page. I go to gym. I'm not tiny, I'm really not. I'm probably like short, I'm five, five, but I'm not tiny. I have guns, you get me and if, if, if if us, can you guys say it's going to come and talk to me? I'm going to look at you like um, can you lift me? Can you like?
Speaker 1:and then you better throw her. Can you bear it over?
Speaker 4:Can you, can you carry me somewhat?
Speaker 2:Can you bench me though, can you?
Speaker 4:like hug me with your, you know like. I well that's what I'm saying. That's that's it for me, though, that's that's fair. That's how like I want to be. I want to feel feminine. I want to feel feminine. That's what it is Like. So that's why we always want somebody who's like bigger than us taller somewhat you get me like wider than us. Whichever, you know the case may be, but we just want to feel like secure.
Speaker 2:You want to feel secure. Yeah, see, they want security.
Speaker 4:That's what it's all about.
Speaker 6:That's it. It's different for you guys, huh.
Speaker 1:A skinny person can't secure you.
Speaker 4:Can he Cause. I'm pretty sure I can do that too.
Speaker 2:She's saying if I can wrap my arm around you, bro, put you under my wing, then you, you can tell the mission.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's a.
Speaker 2:in other words, don't try to have a holler at Ling Ling if you got your arms like they're made of rubber, Like those rubber cartoons, those old 60s cartoons or the cartoon the characters got little ass, tube, arms and shit. No, no no. You see, if you got noodle arms, then don't even bother with it, bro. So if you're all out there, you're over salivating.
Speaker 1:But now she's not even talking about Salivating over, she's talking about skinny in general.
Speaker 2:No. I know, but she's saying like that's your preference too, right? She said if a guy walks up to her at the gym and hollers at her and he's got rubber arms, you ain't got a good you got a good sound.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I might bench more than you do, so.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's it. Yo see, that's a good point, though, If you don't want a guy that can't bench more than you how are you going to spot me?
Speaker 4:Like we're both going to die. Like you cannot be, I cannot be happy Like you severely.
Speaker 5:Congratulations. You played yourself. Thanks, bro, like if someone comes up.
Speaker 2:she's right, I can't control it. You're going to be able to defend her. If some of some bigger dude comes to try to take your girl and makes you look like a little like a little scrub, you're going to get your ass punked. She's probably going to be like who do I go with? Do I stay with the guy that just got punked or do I go see what that's about? Bro, it happens, man. I would doubt that that definitely happens. You know what I'm saying, so I mean that's where.
Speaker 1:That's where it was a loyalty. Well, when that that's true, I remember back in the day somebody, somebody, boyfriend, get the ass whooping a girl, go help them up on what is some of the what some comes with you with energy like this though Finish him, are you going to fight him back? I mean personally.
Speaker 2:I had a problem we could, we could fight, so you're going to be the one that's fatality, not you. Oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 1:Once I can, once I can say it's self-defense, I'm not.
Speaker 4:I'm not discriminating skinny dudes, because I've dated everybody like body type. I've dated skinny dudes, I've dated like a big, big boy before Like how big we talking. Like I would say like 300. Damn, damn yes.
Speaker 3:I am dumb.
Speaker 4:I'm not more into like I would say dumb though.
Speaker 2:Cause you gave him a chance, cause you might have liked this personality.
Speaker 4:Yeah, you gave me like I'm not closing doors, Like I told you guys, like if I vibe with you, that's about it. You gave me, I won't care.
Speaker 3:like what other?
Speaker 4:people say that's respectable. Like I've dated a skinny guy and we look like you know the 10 number, like he's the skinny one and I'm the bigger one Ain't anything wrong with that, Nothing wrong with that. But then I've dated like some people that are just like you know, big boy.
Speaker 2:You know we're going to applaud you just for not for not for not being, you know, discriminatory. All right, you hear that, guys lingling, she doesn't discriminate.
Speaker 4:I really don't. Like I said, I'm more into like how I feel about you and like how you make me feel.
Speaker 2:That's just respectable.
Speaker 4:That's just how it is, cause if a guy comes up to me like all good looking or muscular and shit like that, and if I don't feel, you boy bye, that's interesting.
Speaker 2:So if you don't, if you don't vibe, that's it.
Speaker 4:No, nowadays, like some guys are like trying to like. You know, like I have like two versions of this one, especially when it comes to like spoiling a girl and the guy trying to get the girl just because they have money or say they're trying to impress them with it. I mean, I've never been a type of female that would be impressed with your money, with what type of car you drive.
Speaker 2:So when they try to flash, all that is an appraising.
Speaker 4:You get me. I've dated people with no cars. They take bus. You get me Cause I've been there before. So why am I going to like? Why am I going to feel, you know, sorry for them. I've been there. They're trying to get their life together and that's what it matters.
Speaker 2:Why wouldn't you give them a chance? That's cool. She's like that, though.
Speaker 4:I respect that.
Speaker 2:Well, not everybody, but everybody that can, yeah.
Speaker 4:So it's you guys. You have those type of guys like trying to impress you and whatnot, and then there's type of guys that would just like do small things, give you a little to get me like by you, like a taco or something.
Speaker 1:Yeah, them to niggas that get cheated on Fucking around trying to be nice Somebody else is already going to make up.
Speaker 6:Congratulations. You pranked yourself.
Speaker 4:Who hurt you?
Speaker 1:Damn, let's get into it, let's get into it. She said, who hurt?
Speaker 6:you Girls.
Speaker 1:No, I'm saying no, I'm tired of my dogs being played. I'm talking. I'm talking about from like, past experience, you know, with myself, or like even, even even other friends. It's like I know we used to be. We used to be the sweet guys you know, um, hands pulled up to the belly button, got the flowers in one hand, got the chocolate in one hand. You didn't really dress like that, did you? Never? I hope not. Actually, when I was in eighth grade, I was a little, you know, I was a little sweetheart man. You still, you know, ask, you know, the girl to be your Valentine or whatever the case may be.
Speaker 5:You know a little gift chocolate you know what she do.
Speaker 1:She accepted the gift. She started dating somebody next week. I was like oh shit, well, there we go.
Speaker 4:But the generation changed, though that's what I'm saying Like, what type of females do you guys approach? Cause that matters too.
Speaker 1:But see, look, we're in the age of social media Don't go for a whole show. Well, see, look, where is it.
Speaker 2:There's a. I'm just saying, unless your intention is just to go, I'm around this show where blunt, we don't really censor much, but if you're gonna go fuck somebody, obviously you're gonna go just to the front.
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying. So you guys just wanna fuck? Then that's all you guys are gonna get. You guys are gonna get fucked.
Speaker 1:But that's the thing. It's like. I'm not gonna spend money on you If that's all I'm trying to do.
Speaker 4:I have so much in my plate right now that my priority is not relationship right now. So if I'm talking to you, I'm talking to you. If this goes somewhere, this goes somewhere. That's what it is. But if you're out here just trying to fuck me, boy, you're gonna get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 1:So they put out their good Cause. I'm just gonna hurt your feelings. That's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 4:That's what's gonna happen. I'm gonna hurt your feelings.
Speaker 2:That's facts. That's fair. I believe it. I respect it. No, no, no. Okay, so that's good. At least you letting everybody know right now if, on the record, that's what your intentions are. That's good. That's how they need to be. Nowadays, a lot of people will beat around the bush more than they are straight up people, when they should just be straight up.
Speaker 4:Yup. I have a question though why do you think guys are more sassy here now?
Speaker 2:Wait, what do?
Speaker 1:you mean by sassy? I mean, look, that's what I was getting at. Yeah, like guys.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna tie this into the whole first encounter scene right now too. We'll bring it back to the main topic real quick.
Speaker 1:I think guys have adapted. They have realized that modern day women have adopted this bad bitch mentality. The guy that comes with the flowers and chocolate, like I said, is the one they get cheated on. So they adapted, get in this sassy. Like I said, you see a lot of the pretty women. They're not dating the sweet men, they're dating the assholes and, like the gang bangers, the guys that sag Am I right or am I wrong? The guys that cheat on them. What do they do? They go back. They're stuck on them. They're hooked on them. Is it the daddy issues? I don't know, but that's who they go for.
Speaker 1:The daddy issues crazy the daddy issues is crazy, but am I lying though?
Speaker 4:You're not. You're not.
Speaker 1:So like I think that's why guys have become more sassy, or like assholes, or that's what I think.
Speaker 2:That's fair. Okay, so I wouldn't say the word sass. That's how you done with you. I don't want to cut you off, no, go ahead. So from my answer to that, I don't think it's sass either. I think it's more so. Guys are kind of just catching on to how how game is running. Yeah, so they're just, they're just trying to give it back. If that makes any sense, I wouldn't. I wouldn't necessarily call it sass the first time I've heard a woman put it as sass. I know, no, I know what you mean. I know what you mean. I know what you meant too. I just never heard someone use it that way, though I mean it still. It still means that, though You're right, it's just another way to put it.
Speaker 1:No, I ain't no wrong. No, some dudes are sassy, though that's true.
Speaker 4:Some dudes are yeah, yeah some are Like some of them, would you say that some of them come up more feminine too.
Speaker 2:There's a few more feminine than normal. Is there some men that are feminine? I ain't gonna lie, I don't pay attention to them.
Speaker 4:That's why I don't pay attention to them.
Speaker 2:That's fair.
Speaker 4:Like guys that embraces. Their feminine side is the one that's clean, that looks, you know, presentable, smells good all the time. Take care of their hygiene, that's them embracing the feminine side. You get me. That's the good side pretty much. But then if you're gonna come up with me, old girly, and you know extra sassier than me, she's like okay, I'm not the one for you.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, no, no, she's like I don't wanna date a female, no, so that's really what it comes down to, though, right? Yeah, I'm understandable.
Speaker 1:Hey, so you can date no lights good.
Speaker 4:I can't date no lights good.
Speaker 2:I cannot date no lights. Good, yeah, don't even try. Guys, don't even try, I'll reboot on you. No, but anyway, where else go with that? I'll tie it back into this. So do we all agree to this table that first encounters are more important now, or actually meant something more, of course, as opposed to swiping left, swiping right?
Speaker 6:like they are now. Of course yes.
Speaker 2:Sajjo, you know the comment you wanna add to that as far as what you prefer more.
Speaker 1:I have a question. I have a question.
Speaker 2:Because they're kind of mixed together now they both still exist. It's just more so nowadays. It really meets online.
Speaker 4:Yeah, because like you, swipe and then the first encounter is so different.
Speaker 1:That's weird. Exactly Just the thought of that has always been weird to me, though.
Speaker 2:But do you think it's also beneficial? I'm gonna look at the other side to give a different perspective. I'll just say it that way instead, is it all good? Could it be a good thing? Because now you're breaking the ice, right, but in a way that's not so awkward, right, because it's something like because you might walk up and say the wrong shit and never be able to get to that first date, whether you're more confident behind the screen, right, and you message her instead, and then you get to that first date. So now, when you guys show up, you know what you're there for.
Speaker 1:So it's a little different right Is it?
Speaker 2:helping that sense or no?
Speaker 6:No, so it can't be going up and down, then I'll tell you my feel, of perspective, go ahead.
Speaker 1:Because it's like. It's like then, okay, the thing about social media. It's weird because it's like I can. Yeah, you might be sending these LOL, sending these emojis, these gifs or whatever, but I don't know like you can play LOL. I don't know if you're really laughing behind the phone.
Speaker 4:Because most lately we're not. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1:It's like I can't. I can't but see now if I got your ass cornered right here in the corner and I'm, you know but that date's gonna happen, though, and I'm applying pressure. Yeah, see, look, if I hit on you in person, I can read your vibe, and that's that that first encounter. You gonna know everything you need to know from that first encounter, that's true though that's true.
Speaker 4:That's why I'm saying it's different for you guys, Because for us females dating apps per se or like just encounters we want to feel safe first. We want to feel like is this okay person to actually talk to? That's why we're trying to get to know you guys through text first when it comes to dating apps, Just so we really know what we're dealing with.
Speaker 3:You get me.
Speaker 4:We know what type of personality you have someone. What are you? Do you have humor or are you the serious type? Are you more of like the mature type, talking? You get me those stuff. That's why you're like, okay, am I gonna vibe with this person or not?
Speaker 1:That's just how it is. The thing is, though, I think social media clouds you guys are judgment.
Speaker 4:No, okay.
Speaker 1:Because how you gonna, how are you gonna even give me the time of day if you got like million other candidates in your DMs?
Speaker 4:Because I'm interested in you.
Speaker 1:How you gonna be.
Speaker 4:No, you don't just be.
Speaker 1:no, look, you don't just be interested in me, you have to open my message. What's gonna differentiate my message from a thousand?
Speaker 2:Okay, I like that. So what makes it stick out? See what I'm saying? Yeah, you gotta look at this profile, right? What makes it speak, different than all these other things? Well, she's gonna look at your profile, see if you're attractive.
Speaker 4:We're gonna see your profile. We're gonna run through your thing Like for me, I don't-.
Speaker 2:You girls actually start me to cut you off? Do you girls actually read the About Me? What?
Speaker 1:is this.
Speaker 2:A job interview. You're looking at my stats Like, okay, cause you're gonna check them out. I'm sorry I let you finish the last question.
Speaker 4:So you read all that then?
Speaker 2:What you're into, what you're about me all this.
Speaker 4:I need to know if, like sometimes, they put it there like, oh, I smoke a lot, and I smoke occasionally, drink this and drink a lot.
Speaker 4:Or I go party, party outside a lot and whatnot. This is like I said, like if we can't get through your personally is everything right now is virtually electronically. You get me. So it's how you present yourself all the time. If you go to my page, what would you think about me? You get me like. I asked this one guy before like if you go to my page, would you think that you could afford the lifestyle I'm living? Just a normal conversation. You get me. I'm not telling him like can you afford to like? You get me, like to provide for me, cause I provide it for myself. I'm very independent.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you're not asking for it, you get me like I'm not asking.
Speaker 4:If you give me like $20 right now, I'll give that shit back to you right away.
Speaker 4:You get me like that's the problem in me to like being so independent, being like on my masculine side. That's why I want to be feminine, cause I want somebody to be like fold me down in a proper way, where I'll be like, okay, i'ma let him shut up, i'ma let him, i'ma let him, like you know, try to lead, not necessarily to take care of me, but try to lead me. That's why, even with just that like with my profile, with my Instagram, like, how do you think I'm living my life? What type of person do you think I am? You get me. And then that's why you guys, you know you hit us up, you slide into our DMs, right? That's how you see a person, right?
Speaker 1:But then by A. But look, but the thing with social media, the thing with social media, the thing with a picture, the thing with your profile a picture could be worth a thousand words.
Speaker 2:True, but would you say that, maybe that the whole idea for the app in the first place is to cut all the bullshit out? So you kind of know what to expect. Because when you meet someone yeah sure, when you meet them from scratch, they can they're gonna portray which I think they're gonna do regardless. They're gonna portray what they want you to see, right, but at least with the app they're hoping that with that, you're giving them a pure Let me ask you guys this you see, what I'm saying, like you're giving them more cutthroat.
Speaker 2:Okay, look, this is what I am. Are you down to find out what this is about, or not?
Speaker 1:I'ma ask you guys. I'ma ask you guys a question.
Speaker 6:And then a follow up question. Okay.
Speaker 1:Where relationships, our relationships, better. Now we're back in the day.
Speaker 4:Back in the day, okay.
Speaker 1:And what were they doing then that we don't have now? And what do we have now that they don't have? Then they didn't have social media, but they have better relationships.
Speaker 4:It's not. It's. The problem is not, it's the social media itself. It's like how you get influenced as a person, Cause everybody now would always want something more.
Speaker 1:But why is?
Speaker 4:that that's why we take breaks from our social media. You take breaks, I take breaks, you probably do too. Like you just get me, like it becomes too much. It becomes too much. Like I have a mindset of like before. I'm like, oh, I want to be this type of person and what was she have? And she's over here like 40 years old already. She already has her shit. And I'm over here like 20 years old like I haven't done shit yet. Then how am I going to compare that lifestyle? You get me. It just, it's just how it is.
Speaker 4:Like relationships back then they're more pure because they're not exposed to more. Cause those face to face Exactly they're not, they're not exposed to more bullshit. You get me. They don't see others people. Relationship on social media. You get me. Cause like you guys said social media is fake as fuck.
Speaker 2:It is fake as fuck.
Speaker 4:It's true, you get me, I could post shitload of stories in one day and you would not know how exactly how it feel I would post I'm happy in this shit and I'm texting him like bro what the fuck am I doing with my life?
Speaker 2:Yeah, you could, exactly. You could portray one thing and then really be going to the next one you get me Like that's in like a daily basis, Like he's my best friend, he knows everything.
Speaker 4:I would like post a lot of stories, and then he would ask me like how do you really feel? I don't know, I'm all fucked up.
Speaker 2:That's you just mean yeah, exactly, cause you wouldn't really know what to say unless you're close to the person.
Speaker 4:Relationship back then are way, way better.
Speaker 3:Okay.
Speaker 4:It's just because of the fact that we're trying to impress our person, other people, so we're not trying to, you know, kiss somebody's ass. We're trying to kiss our person's ass.
Speaker 2:Yeah, basically you want them to see you in the best light, exactly, and then when you date the person, eventually you're going to start to see the good and the bad.
Speaker 4:The ugly that comes with it. Do you want to stay or are? You willing to stay? Are you willing to, like you know, settle for that bullshit, or am I, you know? Are we willing to work through this?
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, exactly Exactly.
Speaker 4:Communication bye bye.
Speaker 2:I mean, yeah, we did it. I don't want to
Speaker 4:say that.
Speaker 3:No, no, no no no no, I'm standing firm.
Speaker 6:I'm standing firm.
Speaker 1:I'm standing firm.
Speaker 4:The whole social media, I'm standing firm on it, you sure bro Fatality, I'm standing firm on it, but the thing is like at this point of our life. We can't be firm on something that's always changing.
Speaker 1:You know. But you know what's weird. You know it's weird, like, let's say, it's like your kids are going to ask you, your family's going. Oh, how did you guys meet? They were at.
Speaker 4:What's wrong with that?
Speaker 1:That's weird.
Speaker 4:What's wrong with that If you built the whole family?
Speaker 1:like you can say, yeah say, you can say oh, you know we met a lot. Together. Oh, I seen at a concert. I thought she was beautiful. So that is what I said, that's what I did. I see her picture me virtually. You gotta see it like that bro. I went on her page and read her bio.
Speaker 6:Read her bio. But that is what happens, though she's right.
Speaker 4:People get married too, I went to Mexico right With me in between dating apps and whatnot. I went to Mexico and I met a nice guy over there.
Speaker 1:When in person exactly.
Speaker 4:You get me. That's what I'm saying. It could be dating app. It could. That's something. It's still happening.
Speaker 2:So you met a nice guy or you just talked to him.
Speaker 4:No, I don't. I don't talk to him anymore.
Speaker 2:Did he try to get the panties too soon?
Speaker 4:No, we actually went on a few days. It was actually pretty good, we get along and whatnot, but something fell apart. It's just something fell apart and it just did not work out. You get me, it's more of like an adult decision of like stop talking instead of like going back at it fighting and trying to like work it when it's not working anymore. I had a fun time with him. I made memories and whatnot. What the fuck goes to Mexico and actually meet like a nice guy that's from LA.
Speaker 2:Okay, see, I respect that. Look, kudos to you. You found look. You had a perfect scenario to use of you meeting somebody in person. Why you prefer that over yeah?
Speaker 4:And that person too was trying to talk to another person when we met you. Get me. That's just how it is.
Speaker 1:It's like is that wrong? It's not wrong.
Speaker 4:But I'm saying, like that still happens. You get me If we actually end up together and whatnot. We have like a whole ass family. I would tell my grandkids like yeah, you know your granddad was trying to get at somebody and like asking for a dad.
Speaker 6:See, that's a story, though that's a story.
Speaker 1:That's a story. That's a story, that is a story, though it just depends on how you see it. I met him in Mexico. We were both on vacation. We're both from the LA area.
Speaker 2:That is a cool story, yeah. So if it would have worked out, that would have been a cool little story to tell in the future.
Speaker 4:It's still a cool story to say, See you guys just like, yeah, it's a cool story, Rather than because it's not the normal nowadays.
Speaker 2:You know what I mean. I mean you could meet people in different places. That's probably the way to do it, though the crew a cruise ship or out on vacation somewhere.
Speaker 1:Isn't it weird like talking to somebody for so long on social media and you see them in person, or like it can't be weird.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure, right.
Speaker 1:Cause on cause. Through social media, you guys were on a hundred because you guys are comfortable to see each other. Now that you guys got to see each other, it's like but I have.
Speaker 4:I have met people from like social media though, Like my tech talk, like from people that I try to talk to me. I met them, we get me like. My last relationship so quote unquote relationship was from tech talk. He saw me on tech talk. He messaged me you get me, we get along.
Speaker 2:Was this a three month guy? Yeah, okay, here we go. We were going to ask you about this anyway. So how'd that go? What did I end up? What are you willing to share?
Speaker 4:about it. I can share whatever.
Speaker 2:Go ahead, I know Continue though.
Speaker 3:Continue, though, yeah.
Speaker 2:If you're going to see this person, that we don't know.
Speaker 1:Don't DM me, no more. Don't DM her anymore. If you see this, don't worry, we'll have you on next week. Congratulations.
Speaker 6:You played yourself.
Speaker 4:We're going to hear the side of your story, yeah. We're going to hear your side. Don't worry bro.
Speaker 1:We're not going to let you get taken advantage of them. Days is over. The days are over. Oh my goodness, he's firing away. Sorry, he kept on messaging me.
Speaker 2:He kept on messaging me, he kept on messaging me, he kept on messaging me. He kept on messaging me.
Speaker 4:He kept on messaging me. He saw me on TikTok, that's what he said. He saw me on TikTok and then he kept on messaging me on Instagram and he tried to do that like a few months for a few months, but I'm not really trying to talk to nobody, so I'm like when I was bored, I was like all right, cool, you know, you gave me like let's see what you have.
Speaker 1:That's code. Word right Damn? That's code. Word when you were bored that's code word.
Speaker 4:Oh, no, I'm just not.
Speaker 2:So you only gave him play because you were bored. Yeah, what's wrong with?
Speaker 3:you, you're casting a stopling.
Speaker 4:Not the board. What I mean by board, not like board, like. Basically it's just more of like I'm not doing anything, I'm not talking to nobody, so might as well.
Speaker 2:try to talk to people. Why not give him a chance?
Speaker 4:Yeah, so he's from Miami, but he's originally from Jamaica. He plays soccer professionally.
Speaker 1:Here we go.
Speaker 4:Professional soccer player he plays soccer professionally, so he came from Miami. He came to visit me in LA. She about to put them on blast, so with that effort being said, like with that effort being said, like he did that. Like after he came to visit me, like when he flew back after two days I said I don't have no date for my Christmas party, he was like, no problem, pick me up at the airport tomorrow. I'm like, okay.
Speaker 4:He's going to fight. So what he did was like he let. He literally just flew over for that Christmas party and say another extra day, and then he flew back to Miami.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:So, yeah, look at her.
Speaker 4:So after that, like he moved from a, he moved to a different state, to play for a different state, pretty much. And it's my turn now to come there, right when we were, when we were, when he was started playing. Now stuff happens. Now he need to focus. Now he need to focus.
Speaker 2:She made sure, you guys heard that she needs to focus he needs to focus right.
Speaker 4:And the thing that he was focusing about partially soccer but partially getting friends Female friends, yeah, because you know he's from a new state, he needs to get around and whatnot. So you know I have my FBI, you know stuff going in my head.
Speaker 2:You know the girls do that. Yeah, they always do that.
Speaker 4:I'm such a lover girl that I actually begged this man to stay and fix the relationship. I begged him for a month and a half and after we were not okay, we were not okay anymore. It's like I'm a fly there and see what we could do.
Speaker 1:Try to fix it randomly. Was it random? Yeah, oh, that means you trying to catch him and some shit.
Speaker 4:It's not going to randomly. It's more of like okay, I'm going to be there, like you know, in a week or so, it's not like oh. I'm going to fly there like tomorrow morning or tonight. You gave me no, I have work full. I'm very responsible. Okay, I can't just like scoot a little just because I like this guy.
Speaker 2:I know, I know.
Speaker 1:I know the type of, I know the type of strings y'all nurses could pull, but go ahead.
Speaker 3:That's very true Trust me.
Speaker 4:If we don't want to be on that shift, we won't be on that. If you want to take that vacation.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but yeah, we broke up.
Speaker 4:So we finally broke up after when it's like I was spoiling this man. I was spoiling him.
Speaker 1:Like we were she bought the bro.
Speaker 2:I'm just going to put you on blast big time.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I was paying mostly for our stuff because I did not grow up, you know.
Speaker 1:oh, it's the bread winner.
Speaker 4:I didn't. I didn't grow up like oh yeah, we can't, you know, get me. Like, let them spend money on you, this, this, that. No, if I have money, I'm going to spend it on you, you get me. That's how it is. Like, as much as I like to be spoiled, I spoiled them more per se or spoiled them back.
Speaker 2:It's a major feel good.
Speaker 4:You like you get me, yeah, so so I pay for most of our stuff. I gave him an iPad on Christmas and you know what he gave me? You? Okay, I'm in there, it's my show.
Speaker 1:I was just waiting there.
Speaker 2:Go ahead Sorry.
Speaker 4:You know what he gave me At that time. I was very thankful.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 4:I was very thankful he gave me an Amazon necklace that was like worth probably $20, and I spent like 500 some on this fool.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, what the fuck.
Speaker 4:Yes, females, that spoils you exist. Okay, and we don't care. At that moment, we really don't care like as much as long as we love you, we value you, you love us. You want that PS5?
Speaker 1:I got you Ding, or it could be a trap.
Speaker 2:Why are you always going to have it ready, always, bro, look, look, look. Okay, it could be a trap, because I feel like there are some situations. I even knew somebody right that was sleeping with a female who had children. She had five kids with another guy. He was sleeping.
Speaker 2:He was basically banging her out, reaping all the benefits she's buying gifts do whatever she could in her power to keep them there, which I think that's really what it was, because, let's be honest, you're 20 something years old. Do you really think that this person is going to settle down with a girl, with a person that has that many kids? He was doing all that for the wrong. My whole reason of giving you the examples that she was doing it for the wrong reason, in my opinion. Oh, what's your?
Speaker 1:plan.
Speaker 2:You're over here at two years, the only yeah bro, it's like you were doing that to keep me there, and even then that probably wouldn't work.
Speaker 4:I'm just saying the only benefit I had from that is he was making me happy at that time.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, or were you fooled into thinking you were happy? Now, look see, most of you are basically saying I got love bomb, like he was like-.
Speaker 2:So you wouldn't have. You wouldn't do it, for the same reasons, obviously, as this person. You weren't doing it to keep them there. You were doing it because you genuinely yes Care for them. Okay, see, now, every girl's the same. And, by the way, that person I was talking about, if you think it's about you the shoe fits, then wear it, cinderella. That's all I gotta say yo. Sorry, cinderella, sorry, good.
Speaker 4:So after, after, so, after we I tried to fix it right. It still did not work. He was like I really need this time for myself. Yadda, yadda, I'm not all right. Cool, you know, I think I gave my effort because I emotionally de-attached that person first before I actually like physically, leave you alone.
Speaker 1:That's what they say women do yeah.
Speaker 4:Yep, so once you, once you, done with that emotion.
Speaker 1:That's it, yeah, and you're ready to get?
Speaker 4:rid of them. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:And I feel like it's women there cause once you lose them that way, then you completely lost them, right.
Speaker 4:So after a few months he was still DMing me. He was still DMing me, sending me some pictures and some videos.
Speaker 2:Why didn't he send you a valuable piece of jewelry that was actually worth some money and not some?
Speaker 4:bullshit. At least I get my money back from the iPad, right?
Speaker 3:Yeah, you did.
Speaker 4:Did not. Oh, he was just saying like what if he would?
Speaker 2:send me something. Well, you, I liked what she said, though at least you get her money back.
Speaker 1:You're a nurse, you don't need the money back, but okay.
Speaker 4:But anyway, anyways. So he was still DMing me, whatnot, and then at this time he was already talking to a girl and I think they're already official, and when they're official this guy DM me again. He was like what's the possibility of me seeing you?
Speaker 1:I just wanted to know. And what was?
Speaker 4:your answer. You know what I did. You know what I did.
Speaker 2:Oh, I know what you did. What did she do? What did you do?
Speaker 4:I screenshot that shit and sent it to the girl.
Speaker 2:But I mean, he had no business message in you anymore.
Speaker 1:Wait. But what if? What if you just wanted to clear the air? Oh wow, what if you just want?
Speaker 2:to clear the air? What? If you want. What if it really was genuinely just?
Speaker 5:because that could happen. That's crazy. That may sound to you.
Speaker 2:That's why I gave him that look just now.
Speaker 6:What if it genuinely was him wanting?
Speaker 2:to clear he's right. What if they just genuinely wanted to?
Speaker 4:clear the air, then you would start with that.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 4:How do you start?
Speaker 2:She said that you would start with like. You would make that clear so that you can't get screen shot and then sent to somebody.
Speaker 4:You can just be asking me when you were the one who wanted to break up the relationship and be with some other people.
Speaker 1:Right, but what did he say?
Speaker 4:What did he say? Yeah, he said what's the possibility of me seeing you?
Speaker 1:I just well, before I ask Hold on, let me try to break down. Hold on, hold on. He traveled. He traveled for work.
Speaker 4:He travels for work. So there are some times that he would, we would go here in California to play, so that's what league did he play for?
Speaker 2:You already put on a blast, so I must have just tell us you don't have to say the name of the team or little leagues what league.
Speaker 4:I think it's you.
Speaker 2:I think, it's the USL one. Oh, okay, that was like MLS, or something, so they don't got money. So he was yeah, she basically said he's broke, but basically because you don't got no real MLS money, but anyway, basically no major league soccer money, but anyway, that's why he's buying you $20 jewelry.
Speaker 4:Which I appreciate. At that time, let's go to your neck green girl.
Speaker 1:You're not going to appreciate it. You're not going to appreciate it when your neck is green.
Speaker 2:That's true, though he's right. I appreciate you should turn green you get me.
Speaker 4:I just put that shit up there and be like you know.
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, she knew better than it's worth. Yeah, she was smart enough not to yeah.
Speaker 2:I'll give you that Good job.
Speaker 1:Now my neck turned green.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's just what it is, bro.
Speaker 4:So like you're watching this Whoever you are, I'm not going to say your name, you know.
Speaker 2:You know why you're being roasted right now. Bro, come on, he's happier and I'm like game. I got you no nail seating. You should turn no. All right, convers, he's not too cold anywhere.
Speaker 1:You should be cool. He talks aboutunu trim up to your neck and if it's going to break your shelf at the side of your neck.
Speaker 2:You should be happy when you have an eye for somebody.
Speaker 4:That's not going to happen, because they'll try to rip open your neck as possible. Well, I can copy whatever you like.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you should have kept it, no, but anyway, okay. So since we're, is it before we move on right, cause we're already on the topic of you? Yeah, before we move on to the next topic which Sligel had for us, I wanted to ask you a little bit more about you Not just me, but Sligel as well. We were always. We had a few episodes where we were discussing since we're on the topic of romantics you know, romantics and relationships and all those things that intertwine.
Speaker 2:We had a few female guests on the show before. They shared with us their first time. Would you be willing to share that with us here, yeah?
Speaker 4:Here we go. How'd that go? My actual first time, first time.
Speaker 2:Yes, your first time. The first time.
Speaker 4:I thought you. It's just very vivid. Now I don't think I could like actually Vivid I yo, I was in high school. I was very young when I started.
Speaker 4:I was very young, so the first experience wasn't that good. It's not bad. It was actually more of like you know, we were in love at that time. You want to keep it like that Cause, like we're high school sweethearts pretty much. It was good. It was really good Like you gave me, like he took me to his house and what. Now we have that whole house. I hope my family does not watch us or our brothers they probably are they probably are.
Speaker 2:When you tell them you're on a podcast, you know they're going to watch us. I got to do it, not tell them you're on your own. You could do that too.
Speaker 4:Just don't let the certain people you don't want to know. To know this, the shenanigans man, I can't.
Speaker 2:Hashtag believe it.
Speaker 4:Yo.
Speaker 2:Yeah, she said hashtag, leave it in.
Speaker 4:So we had the whole house to ourselves. And what now? So we just like you know sorry.
Speaker 1:His house, yeah, his house.
Speaker 4:We just started making out and you know.
Speaker 2:So, yeah, okay, so you were making out. Stuff went down. Yeah, did you guys at least like did you? Did you go into it knowing what to do, or did you go into it?
Speaker 4:like I didn't know what to do. Okay, you probably did.
Speaker 2:I say that because some people like they try to watch porn or whatever.
Speaker 4:I did not. I did not At that time. I did not know it's going to happen.
Speaker 1:Wait. So how do you, how do you know what to do? Well, I don't know if he's experienced, but how do you know what to do if both people don't know what to do? Because you're a virgin too right? We guys both virgins.
Speaker 2:I'm not sure.
Speaker 4:I am, but did you ever have that? But he had to, he knows to do?
Speaker 2:Did he at least seem like, oh shit, he knows what he's doing, did you? Did he hit you with that, did you?
Speaker 4:make you feel that way.
Speaker 1:I mean, it was just missionary and dog yourself, so it mostly like the missionary Nah, no, but you still got to know what you're holding, that's true exactly what if he stuck it in the wrong hole.
Speaker 2:you'd be telling him well, what are you doing? Of course, I know that doesn't feel right.
Speaker 1:Because for me I felt like I was a first time mechanic, like, okay, we got the carbonator over there. He said first time mechanic.
Speaker 6:Look for some people.
Speaker 2:It could be like collect, collect, convert. Yo, I like that. That was a good one.
Speaker 6:I like that Okay.
Speaker 4:But no, I think, I think he knows what he was doing.
Speaker 2:You're nasty. He's a nasty person. Okay, so he wasn't a virgin then, but you were.
Speaker 4:Yeah, okay, so it was my first time. Come on now.
Speaker 2:That's fair. No, no, no, that's fair. Okay, all right. Well, at least you enjoyed it, Right, it wasn't terrible with someone you cared about. Do you still talk to this person?
Speaker 4:Oh no, that was like she's. I was like what?
Speaker 2:Hey, we, it could. You can still talk to the person.
Speaker 4:I mean you never know, I was very young, I was very young. He's like wait, wait, wait a minute. So no, this guy.
Speaker 2:I think, I think he has like a whole ass family now.
Speaker 4:He has like two or three kids and whatnot. So his, his sister still hit me up because I was very close.
Speaker 2:We're going to stop real quick for a second, because you're going to get yourself there now. I said you knew ahead of yourself as far as you said you were young, are you? Willing to disclose how old you were. Huh, okay, were you. Were you younger?
Speaker 3:than 16? I was younger than 16.
Speaker 1:I was younger than 16. Were you younger than 16? Huh. Were you younger than self? Oh, oh shit.
Speaker 2:I don't want to answer. Okay, no judgment, damn.
Speaker 4:We should just leave it there, bro, next topic oh shit, okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 6:Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, right, okay, okay, okay, yeah, alright, I'm going to go ahead and finish this off here.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 4:I wanna, like my family, were very strict at that time. We were very Catholic, very private, I have. We were on a private Catholic school with a service on where they would like pick us up, drop us off. Somebody would bring us lunch because we cannot go outside, yep, and then I would always have to have somebody like with me all the time. So how the?
Speaker 1:hell, did you get to his house?
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying. Yo butler took you. That's what I'm saying Like it's more of it's more of. Like the teenager in me just trying to break free.
Speaker 1:Hey, that's what they say, like they say like a lot of pastors, kids are ones that get the most trouble.
Speaker 2:Yes, she's right, the ones that get in trouble the most are usually the pastors. Kid or church kid, right yeah.
Speaker 4:Cause, like we would, I would have all the resources. They could come over to my place.
Speaker 2:Was it just curiosity? Like you said, they can come to your place with you. So you're like okay, why can't I do this?
Speaker 4:You gave me like and Philippine sex education does not exist, or at least when I was growing up.
Speaker 1:So nobody. So that's like they would tell you why it's bad, like okay, if you were here, sweetheart, if you sleep with random people, you might catch something. No, it's just like that random, weird thing nobody talks about. Yeah, they would just tell you like, it's like taboo to bring it up? Yeah, pretty much. It's very weird, it's like forbidden knowledge, even now.
Speaker 4:I'm still not, you know, able to disclose anything sexually with just even my mom.
Speaker 1:Your parents. Yeah, that's right. No, that is kind of weird talking to them about it.
Speaker 4:I don't know how to see how some people do that Some people won't be able to like. At least you know, I'm talking to my parents about it.
Speaker 1:I mean girls do it with their mom.
Speaker 2:I have her, but like me, I'm just like mom, like you know I smashed her and no you did not, that's not how it happened.
Speaker 4:No, I didn't. It's like she gave me, like no, you did not.
Speaker 2:I was supposed to be like no, you did not.
Speaker 1:No it's weird because no, because I've heard a lot of people say yeah, I told my mom how it was, like, so what do you say? Like you, like he put it in the hurt, like, what do you say? Like it's just weird, because I couldn't say I got a church, mama.
Speaker 4:No, but okay, let's not drag it along. But that's just how it is for me, like, especially in the Philippines, like I said, such education does not exist over there, as, like depression and anxiety does not exist in the. Philippines. So it's a very like sensitive topic that a lot, not a lot, of people are willing to talk about.
Speaker 2:Willing to discuss with you and very open to you get me.
Speaker 4:That's what it is so like. Even if I was a sad as fuck when I was back then, I was not depressed, I was just sad. You get me. They will go out.
Speaker 1:Go out on the street.
Speaker 4:Talk to people. You'll be cured. That was their solution. Yes, just go out there, maybe you're all right, let's do this. No, I just think it's like here.
Speaker 2:It sucks because like people would get medications all the time you see Filipino sad.
Speaker 4:No, you don't, Because we always have a backup. We always have friends and families, because we have that close family ties you get me. So that's why I'm just sad, because those family ties you get me. So that's why my thing is like I had to break free from that. I was very curious and I was not getting the answers. I was not getting lead on to something that could be beneficial for me.
Speaker 2:Pretty much Okay. Well, that makes sense.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that was my first time. It was, you know it was all right. It was all right, it was all right, it was all right, it did not disappoint, and we were together for like I think we stayed in the village for almost like two years. That was my first boyfriend too. Two years.
Speaker 2:Oh wow, okay, that was your first Okay, so at least it was your boyfriend. That's good, why? Why, she's like what you think it was going to be. Come on, bro. Anyway, we're going to leave that right there. Saito, what do you got for us?
Speaker 1:today, man. Well, we actually started talking a crazy thing, bro. Before I say what it is, because we were actually talking about it earlier. Oh, here we go. And the whole time we were talking about it, bro, there was a black gentleman sitting behind us.
Speaker 3:Her and her other. Yeah, her and her other. Is that breakfast this morning?
Speaker 1:Yeah, Her and her other nurse friend thought they was doing something because they were there was double teaming me in the conversation we were having, oh shit. But when we was walking out, the black dude, he stood up and he was like nah, bro, you held yours. I was like oh, that's, thank you. It was that All the time bro it was listenin'.
Speaker 4:Yeah, all the time, bro, it was like the conversation was that deep Because, like, whenever we get, whenever we meet, we have for breakfast, like we don't talk about, like oh, how's, how are you doing that? No, we go deep. We go to like whatever is going on through our head, like what?
Speaker 2:do you?
Speaker 4:think about this. What's your?
Speaker 2:perspective on this.
Speaker 4:Yeah, and like what do you think about this situation? It's not like a boring conversation, or it's not even like nothing like very simple. It's always deep. That's why, when people like would look at us and would hear our conversation, they'd be like, damn, what you all talking about.
Speaker 6:That's how it is for the gentleman earlier, because we were like literally going at it. We were talking about Bibles. We're talking about you know sex, we're talking about relationship.
Speaker 4:We're talking about being, like you know, cheated on and what not. And he was just there like laughing.
Speaker 2:I don't even know what point he was laughing. He was like y'all just have to quit my other podcast right here.
Speaker 6:I don't know, you know what's where bro.
Speaker 1:I don't know at what point he sat behind us, but all I know is when we got up to leave, he got up to leave.
Speaker 4:Yep. He's like he stayed there to just listen to the conversation.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Whoa, okay, all right. So what? What topic was you going to discuss today? Were you going to discuss today that you were discussing this morning, man?
Speaker 1:Well, it's a. It's a. It's something that I've always, you know, always. I don't know, I think after my last relationship, I always, I always questioned and this is what I brought to them If a relationship even really exists, or is it like a, a thought we try to make an adult version of from high school or whenever you start dating.
Speaker 4:Apparently people. He does not believe in relationships.
Speaker 1:No see cause? Look at it. Look at it. All right, it's been heartbroken.
Speaker 4:Let us grab a bag of plastic from in the trash.
Speaker 1:Hey, listen, listen to logic, listen, listen to logic, listen to logic.
Speaker 4:Listen to logic when he belongs.
Speaker 2:Where he belongs, where he belongs when, where, okay.
Speaker 1:Where do you? When do you start dating? What age? What age, what, what? What part of life do you start dating? I mean realistically like when does it start?
Speaker 2:People do it in high school, high school, high school.
Speaker 4:That's when you develop like actual feelings. And hormones are raising yeah.
Speaker 6:High school. Then you got the little true, that's true, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Right. So then it's like are we trying to make an adult version of something we're doing as kids?
Speaker 4:You want. If you want to put it that way, let's put it that way. Yes, okay, yeah, that's interesting.
Speaker 1:High school High school.
Speaker 2:So you don't really you don't live with that person, you don't even have a car yet, but you're trying to get the sexual benefits of being with that person, though so when you graduate right Right, you graduate high school. Most people are doing it because they're at a little rate, their hormones are raging and they want to try all that shit out.
Speaker 1:Think about it, bro. So when you graduate high school, now you could do this adult version where okay, now I've got a car so we could go places now. Yeah, Now my mom's more lenient so you could spend the night sometimes. Yeah, or if I got my own place. Now you could the facts. Yeah, my thing is is so if we're, if we're, if we're making an adult version of something we did as kids, are we chasing the figment of our imagination?
Speaker 2:I wouldn't say a figment of our imagination, but maybe we're chasing. I'm going to say nostalgia.
Speaker 6:A fantasy. A fantasy?
Speaker 2:Well, because, think about it, you're right. There was a time and there's a time and place where your responsibility is non-existent. Yes, you're chasing, I mean so you're just doing whatever the fuck? You sleeping over, and some people grow up out of that and some don't.
Speaker 1:No, but think about it, bro. Think about it. We, we started advancing more. You start sleeping over. You know you're not just sleeping over, so you can watch movies.
Speaker 2:Of course we got Netflix going on, but, yeah, we not watching it, though we ain't watching the Netflix yet.
Speaker 1:Right, and then that's how you still watching Exactly.
Speaker 2:Exactly.
Speaker 1:Bro. But then I asked them and I think this is when it started getting good If, metaphorically speaking, I have the whole cow before marriage what's the need to get married?
Speaker 2:True, if you're basically yeah to to re-interate, you're saying, if I'm getting the benefit of having you, like I mean you're with my wife, not married, but I want to go get married.
Speaker 4:Like I said, like I told you earlier, it's just about what you believe and what you have to say that's true, because I know people that's been together for like 30, 40, 60 years and they're still not married, just because they're happy with it.
Speaker 3:You get me.
Speaker 4:How are you, why are you going to fuck that up with pressuring them to get married? And then, once they get married, they fight about expenses, they fight about financial stuff, they fight about who's going to get this. They fight about like oh, are you going to pay this, are you going to pay that, or are we going to split it, or whatnot? So how are you? Going to mess that up, you get me. So it's just always. It's up to what you believe in, what you have faith in.
Speaker 2:What it boils down to.
Speaker 4:You get me and you're not going to. You're not going to be with that person. If you want to get married, he does not want to get married. It does not work that way.
Speaker 1:That's true, you're saying you're playing yourself. At that point I think a lot of people don't know what they want. I think a lot of people are confused.
Speaker 4:Do you know what you want?
Speaker 2:Me. I think a lot of people want to test drive the car before they sign the contract, of course, Exactly You're going to be like okay, this is, this is. Think about that this is a new test.
Speaker 4:Sign it. You think they'll be like are you out of your mind?
Speaker 2:So yeah, so are you. Are you on board with those people that do that?
Speaker 4:then which one the test driver? In what way? Physically, emotionally and mentally?
Speaker 2:Because, to be honest, people like to physically test drive too. And then I've heard the argument where some females and males have said that if they don't test drive, quote unquote, venture into a sexual you know situation and find out how that is. They could be marrying someone. Possibly that's terrible in bed, don't get me wrong. Obviously that's not everything right.
Speaker 6:But it is what you would. You agree, that's important.
Speaker 1:No, no, no no.
Speaker 6:Would you agree I?
Speaker 2:just ask you, I'll ask you.
Speaker 1:No, no See cause, listen, listen, listen, listen to what you just said, right? Listen. That's what I told them.
Speaker 2:Look, and this is what I told them. This is what I told them. Did you guys ask that question?
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, think about it, think about it.
Speaker 2:So you're saying, you're saying I'm asking a question, no, no, no, I'm saying, I'm saying, I'm saying cause I've heard that before too.
Speaker 1:I've heard that. Absolutely, but you gotta, you gotta, you gotta call people out of their bullshit, because it's like. That just shows me how fucked up your mind is. So you didn't have, you didn't slept with all these people, and now what you just said and what you just said, you're kind of like a. You got a lot of body counts to the point where you're a master in bed, of course, cause you know how what good sex is.
Speaker 4:But why does it always have to come up with the sex though?
Speaker 1:Because it's well I'm.
Speaker 4:I'm, I'm, I'm caught in off what he's saying.
Speaker 1:I'm asking a question.
Speaker 4:No, he's. He's asking me like in general, like everything, am I willing to destrive that?
Speaker 6:Yeah, I said both.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I'm not willing to have enough like having a relationship. Yeah, Not just I'm not saying just sexual, but just sexual cause, like, like. Like I said, for females we need to be like somewhat, you know, connected to that person. Of course it's not necessarily like yeah. Emotionally and mentally.
Speaker 2:You get me Like yeah, it's more emotional for you guys than it is us, though, honestly for sure. So that's what you're saying, that we're coming from.
Speaker 4:Yeah. So the test drive? It just means like, okay, are we going to get along enough for us to be in bed? That's just what it is.
Speaker 1:Are we going to get along enough? Yeah?
Speaker 2:Yeah, are we going to get to that?
Speaker 4:Yeah, yes, cause if you come up to me like if, for example, in the bar, I'm already tipsy, if I don't like you, I'm not going to go with you anywhere.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly, that's facts.
Speaker 4:I'm not going to let you even touch me?
Speaker 2:I'm not even going to get to that point.
Speaker 4:You're going to get to that point, you're going to get to a situation where, huh, you said you said you said like, like you said, cause, like earlier at the bar he was like oh, you want to meet up the bar? Yeah, yeah, yeah, if you come up to me at the bar and I'm already tipsy, you know, some females are just like you know. You get me like you want to get out of here, that's what they're there for yeah.
Speaker 4:But if you're going to like I said, if you're going to come up to me, even with that person, we're just trying to get that. But if they're not feeling that guy, then you ain't going to get nowhere, buddy. You ain't going to get no kiss or anything.
Speaker 2:Well, and you kind of said earlier too, like if you're there, if you're looking to fuck, then you're going to get fucked. That's what you get. So that's what you get. So you get a relationship with a relationship you know.
Speaker 1:So that's what you just got to feel the vibe, feel this vibe yes, so it's always going to come to that.
Speaker 4:It's always going to have to come to that connection. He's like no All right.
Speaker 2:So I have a question then for both of you. So I'm going to ask her, I'll ask our guest person. So, when it comes to the sexual part, right, since he brought that? Up well, I brought it up too, but he's, he's not about to go in, but he went in yeah. We go? No, we're not. What the fuck you can go in?
Speaker 3:right now.
Speaker 2:You can go in right now after this. I just want to finish asking her this real quick first. So when it comes to the sex, say you the guy is amazing in every other way, right?
Speaker 6:He stimulates you the way you want him to you know, non-physically yeah.
Speaker 2:When it comes to physical parties, terrible.
Speaker 4:I'm not going to be with you, so it is important, see, I mean come on physical what.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, no, because you were saying sexual. They need to have physical, sexually physical, the physical is like relating to sexual. Okay.
Speaker 2:If the sex is terrible, then no, no way.
Speaker 4:I just want to say you stupid.
Speaker 2:Do you?
Speaker 4:not understand.
Speaker 6:Do you not call for a?
Speaker 4:hand, First of all.
Speaker 1:I took a cat nap. I didn't really sleep. After I got on from work, I took a cat nap.
Speaker 2:The shots are fired on this side and I'm still winning. So okay bro, look we'll reset the computer for you.
Speaker 1:No, no, you don't need to reset Shit, I'm still winning.
Speaker 4:Anyway. So, like I was saying, if you're perfect in any way and you suck at that part, I'm sorry, I can't be with you. If you're not willing to change or if you're not willing to figure out what about they're willing to learn. Then go ahead. Good, I'll teach you. That's kind of harsh, don't you think?
Speaker 2:Yeah, look, I was actually going to say that that's kind of harsh, so I was going to add, but no no, no, no, no, let me ask you, no, let me ask you Hold on, hold on hold on. No, I want to ask him. I know he's getting into it. Let me ask you then so would that be a deal breaker for you? What if she was great? She stimulated you in every way. You know mentally everything non-physical. When it came down to the physicality of it. She was terrible.
Speaker 4:I'm talking about. It's just I'm going to be with that person or not? Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2:Would that be a deal breaker for you?
Speaker 4:No, it's just a yes or no.
Speaker 2:No. So even if they suck at it, they're terrible at it.
Speaker 4:They're terrible at it.
Speaker 1:Who's to see. Okay, that's what I was saying earlier, like just because, look, look, look, just because it's as simple, as you know, if you like it, you don't know yeah like, see, look, okay, let's say, let's say, let's say you're. You're the experienced mechanic you talking about, Because obviously you've been around enough to know what's good and what's good and what's bad.
Speaker 1:But let's say you dealing with a virgin, you'll be like she's beautiful, she got there, she could cut, she got her, she makes her own money. But just because it's just because she's a virgin show.
Speaker 4:That's why the answer is like you know, if they suck at it, you're willing to teach them.
Speaker 2:Exactly.
Speaker 1:I don't think I'll cut y'all off.
Speaker 4:And then, when I said I don't think I'll cut y'all off.
Speaker 2:I've been getting cut off. No, no, I understand.
Speaker 1:You guys get stimulated because I'm winning, but go ahead.
Speaker 3:I understand. I understand. Congratulations.
Speaker 6:You played yourself.
Speaker 1:I'm listening, but you guys see what I'm saying, though, but you guys see what I'm saying, but you didn't beat no one of you did. No, no, no.
Speaker 4:I'm winning. He just wanted to win. I'm winning.
Speaker 2:Yeah, okay, big win, big win, no, no, but okay. So what I was going to get at, though, to kind of point out what you were saying, I agree with you. I think not enough couples talk and communicate that. They don't that they okay, look, if I can't, and I feel like in your case, to go along what you're saying if the person you like enough.
Speaker 1:That's something you could learn. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2:But you have to communicate with your partner. Hey, I like this or I don't like when you do that. I like when you do this, I like when you don't do that.
Speaker 3:Can I challenge you guys? All right?
Speaker 2:Don't Sorry, I don't like me to do this, but I like me to do that.
Speaker 1:Can I challenge you guys real quick Go ahead Just like. Just like her. You know there's no prejudice, but Eagle might get in the way.
Speaker 2:The guy might get offended. Like I know what I'm doing, like I'm trying to tell you this as well.
Speaker 1:When you first both are fresh, there's no prejudice. It's like, okay, I know what good is, and I know what bad is. You see, they're both good. I know what good is, I know what bad is. You gotta meet this requirement. Like it's like no, like we both this is our first time Like there's something special right here.
Speaker 4:But we're not talking about that.
Speaker 2:We both know that you have some already, but that's what I'm saying so your mind is low key tampered with, but everybody here at this table right now is out of virgin, though.
Speaker 1:But I'm saying everybody's mind is tampered with for that same reason. That's what you're saying, but that's why you asked them.
Speaker 2:That's what you're saying, though.
Speaker 4:Like what he was saying earlier, like I'm the type of female who would ask you like, how was it? Did you like it? Is there anything else that I could do to make it better?
Speaker 2:Yeah, Pretty much, and that's a mature conversation to have the person's like immature, like are we talking about this? Why not? Yeah?
Speaker 4:why not? That's important, bro. Like wait. Why are you so important, if I'm trying?
Speaker 2:to get at you again. That's not important yeah.
Speaker 4:I'm trying to please you. Wait, hold on. I'm trying to please you.
Speaker 2:Wait.
Speaker 1:I feel like we're doing a business transaction.
Speaker 2:Oh, no, no, no, you shouldn't feel like where's my tip at?
Speaker 4:She wants to make sure you're fully pleasure. Of course I'm not gonna say like that Come on now, comment, Sam.
Speaker 1:Obviously he's not gonna say like that yeah, no of course, because it sound like that I earned my paycheck.
Speaker 2:Okay, so he took it literal. You took it, you took what you were saying.
Speaker 4:Listen, do you want me to say how did you like it? Daddy, like that.
Speaker 1:I want you to give me a five star rating.
Speaker 4:You get me like this is over. We're trying to be like PG, at least.
Speaker 2:She's like trying to be PG about it. So I'm like, daddy, did you like that? Next time I'll do that a little bit more.
Speaker 1:I'll tell you. So you gonna get up.
Speaker 4:Well, you're not gonna ask right away, you dummy. You're not gonna go.
Speaker 2:Was that good Like no one's gonna do that Like.
Speaker 4:I was no one's gonna do that come on now.
Speaker 2:I mean during you might even like during a stroke. You might say baby, does that feel good?
Speaker 4:That's something like that maybe, but you won't straight up like this is why I tell you you need to go out a lot. You gonna. You gotta stop or at least a little bit more.
Speaker 2:Even that's rare, right? I don't even do that usually.
Speaker 4:I mean sometimes you don't yeah, but you don't do it, you just go. I feel like if you're in sinking up I was like, oh, did you like that? That's so weird.
Speaker 1:Like you, stop midway a back shot. That's getting us like is there fruit snacks in the cupboard. I go over there like.
Speaker 2:He said mid back shot, Like what are you after this? You at least wait till you're done, Like wake her up. Ask about the kids fruit snacks Back her leg. Wake her up. Is there a fruit snack? I think it's like wake up. I got a question to ask you Y'all crazy bro. Oh my God, Y'all, I'm crazy. Oh shit man, that's funny bro.
Speaker 1:Y'all out, bro. The fact that y'all crying off each other too is just-. What, bro? It's all.
Speaker 2:All right, bro, we'll refile for you, okay.
Speaker 1:I think, but I think I'm still winning, though.
Speaker 4:No, bro the problem with you is like you want to win. We're just having conversations.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly, who's trying to win? I'm not trying to win.
Speaker 1:We're talking, I'm winning.
Speaker 2:What's give me score, big win, are you give me score?
Speaker 1:I'm keep this score. I'm just having a conversation.
Speaker 2:We're having a good time, bro, without all that.
Speaker 4:It's like 17 to 21 now. He salty and dusty.
Speaker 2:No, no. How do you really feel, though?
Speaker 1:No, I smell good, it's like shut down, smell good.
Speaker 3:Smell good, smell good. This is how we be like on a daily basis.
Speaker 4:This is how we talk on a daily basis we just like be, going at it. Like I said, the more that you communicate with your friends, it's more of like. The problem is like people lose communication nowadays. They're more into like how are you doing? Oh, I'm good, and end.
Speaker 2:Yeah, or you get a very surface conversation that you don't really want to know the answer to.
Speaker 4:Our brains work all the time. We always have questions, like we always have questions, and if you have a person like that's gonna, you can just like. You know, bro, do you think it's dumb or do you think it? Give me like.
Speaker 2:That's why it's healthy to stimulate, like you said, have a deep, real conversation that's actually relatable.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but this will just try to win. Look at him, I'm winning.
Speaker 2:No, I'm winning. What is your goal here tonight, sir?
Speaker 4:What is?
Speaker 1:your goal sir.
Speaker 2:You know, for the competition or what.
Speaker 1:No, my goal is to be seen and be heard.
Speaker 2:Wait, did we even clarify what your topic was? We just ran.
Speaker 1:No what I dare tell you.
Speaker 2:What would you say it was? I want to make sure I didn't blow over it?
Speaker 1:Is the idea of a relationship a real thing?
Speaker 2:Oh, ok, that's what it was. So the idea of a relationship, is it a real thing or is it just a figment of our imagination?
Speaker 1:To reiterate what he's saying, is it a real thing or an illusion?
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's what he's saying. I think it's real. I feel like, where do you stand with?
Speaker 1:that I'll ask you next Ling.
Speaker 2:Ling, but me personally. I feel like it's real, it's biblical, it isn't, huh? So what are you getting at? Are you saying that we're not supposed to be monogamous?
Speaker 3:What would Jesus do? What would?
Speaker 2:Jesus do.
Speaker 1:Hey hey hey, let me tell you what I don't know. If you just said it.
Speaker 6:Let me tell you what.
Speaker 2:Or do you think you're supposed to spread your seeds? Jesus was here. Jesus was here, yeah, but Jesus was good. But did he say to go spread your seed everywhere either?
Speaker 4:He said that he said what Wait hold on he said go ahead, wait, oh, let me hear you, let me hear you.
Speaker 2:Wait, hold on, wait, let me hear you.
Speaker 1:Let me hear both of y'all blaspheme right now. Saka, saka, saka, correct.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Go for it, You're a guest.
Speaker 1:No, what he said. No, you tell me what he said first. Then you say the thing is what?
Speaker 4:Because I don't read a lot of Bible stuff. You know this.
Speaker 3:She's referencing.
Speaker 4:I'm Catholic and whatnot, but what they're saying is from what I grew up with. What they're saying Catholic was just fed into me. I didn't have no choice. I didn't have to be a Christian.
Speaker 1:I didn't have no choice to be a Christian, to be a Muslim or whatnot it was like Just told it to be Catholic, but you were talking about the be fruitful right, the multiply. That's what she was referring to. That's what he was referring to.
Speaker 2:That's what we were referring to yeah, be up, but you're talking about the same thing. You know that. Yeah, we're just referencing it. No, we didn't say. He said for sure Wait, hold on.
Speaker 1:One thing to keep in mind Be fruitful. When the devil tempted Jesus, he used the word. He's the word of God when he tempted Jesus, so you can use the word to and or gives it to, because when he made Adam, he didn't bring him a bunch of bitches, he brought them Me.
Speaker 4:That's why how did you, how did they multiply?
Speaker 1:Well, I mean, we know there was some.
Speaker 2:What is it? How are they fruitful?
Speaker 1:No, no, no there was some. There was some. I forgot what is incest going on at the time. Oh, there was some instance, well, really. Oh yeah, well, I had to if it started off with two people. I had to.
Speaker 4:So you know brother's marriage, you know brother.
Speaker 2:So you're actually fucking your brother yeah.
Speaker 1:So this is this. I know you don't reach out, good luck.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, but you just said it, though Incest.
Speaker 1:Yes, but during the time of Moses. That's when God told him to stop doing that, so at one point it was the it was.
Speaker 2:He knew it was the norm back there, it was actually the norm back there, where people come out fucked up, though no. So when did they stop doing it then?
Speaker 1:when there was enough that we OK, they weren't tied in the family tree, got the laws like the like, the 10 commandments and the rest of the laws. That's when. That's when they said, yeah, y'all, y'all, cousins.
Speaker 2:You got that. See that, that marriage over there in the back, that marriage in the back, you're fucking your cousin. You got to stop doing it. He said y'all cousins.
Speaker 1:You got kids already.
Speaker 2:Y'all got to stop doing that.
Speaker 1:We don't want that. No, because the thing is that at that point, there was enough of them where they didn't need to. Yeah, Keep cross, breathing like that.
Speaker 2:They need to keep cross Cross breathing. Yeah.
Speaker 1:Brown.
Speaker 2:Brown man dude, I mean, hey, it is what it is, bro, but as far as, as far as what we're talking about, is it real? I think it is real. I think it is real because, like I said at the end of the day. If you want to be monogamous, it's a choice I feel like it's the right one to make. The Bible doesn't say that. But then again the Bible doesn't say it's OK to have 10 wives either it most women are not going to be OK with that.
Speaker 2:But, I guess. Ok, baby, you're my Wednesday wife, it's all right.
Speaker 1:No, I mean, hey, it was in the law.
Speaker 3:It was in the law. It was in the law Really.
Speaker 1:It was in the law. Wow, Most of them they talk about. They spoke about divorce. They spoke about all that being on faith.
Speaker 2:So would you? Would you prefer pilling me then? Because? Then, he would love to. He's like hell. Yeah, I love a different wife every day of the week.
Speaker 1:And I won't, god, I won't, god, I won't.
Speaker 4:God's will huh. Now let me ask you something.
Speaker 2:Wow, would you be a cool being a part of something like that.
Speaker 4:No.
Speaker 2:She said, fuck no, I'm not going to be a Friday wife. She's, I'm not.
Speaker 4:I'm not a jealous type, no more. I'm very territorial, though.
Speaker 2:So you would not want to be able to share.
Speaker 4:No, but that's for different, see.
Speaker 1:but then, see, that's kind of that, but that's hypocrisy. Though that's hypocrisy.
Speaker 3:How.
Speaker 1:Because it's like let's think about like everybody at this table wants to get married someday, right?
Speaker 6:Mm, hmm, yeah.
Speaker 1:OK, so maybe, maybe you're not being with multiple people at once, but it's like, is it going into the body counts too, but it's like they've already had you.
Speaker 4:Just a reminder that we are in a different generation. We're not in like 1600.
Speaker 1:No, I mean no, no, no, no, no, it's not so it's not upholding an old thought. It's like this is legit my thought process.
Speaker 4:OK, but the thing is like, like I said, nowadays you got to try to date people for you to find your person.
Speaker 1:Yeah, date. Well, ok, date is one thing, fuck is another thing.
Speaker 4:It is yeah. But, that's what I'm saying, like if you're trying to be, if you're trying to fuck, right, you're trying to fuck, you're going to get fucked, but if you're trying to do earlier.
Speaker 2:yeah, she's in earlier. Yeah, If you're trying to date, then OK, Go ahead. I'm saying to you, saying to you though.
Speaker 1:No, no, but that's what I'm saying. Dating is one thing, but then, like you, want your future wife to get ran through by like half the world, half the city, no.
Speaker 2:You cool with that? No, so, so I'm not cool with that.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, no don't worry, don't worry, it wasn't all at once, it was spread out.
Speaker 2:You ask if I'm OK with it, but it was spread out, not 100.
Speaker 1:Not 100 dudes all at once.
Speaker 2:But just spread out that most guys are not OK with body. I body counts I like the same thing.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I like the same thing.
Speaker 2:Wow, hypocrite, or you?
Speaker 1:just get it OK.
Speaker 2:I actually have something to say to this.
Speaker 1:It's funny, you see what I'm saying though. Right, yeah, yeah, so have you heard of?
Speaker 2:OK, but you know what's funny, though, I think, the most cop out answer ever, because I feel like obviously we are genetically different. The men and women are not the same. It's definitely why which we're not. So he's saying he's like so we're not hypocrites. How are we different? It's worse, we're different.
Speaker 4:Because it's just you guys. The thing is like you guys don't, don't want a female.
Speaker 1:That's been so you mean like a double standard with 30 guys?
Speaker 4:Yeah, double standard, you get me, but you guys, how many girls have you, anyway? How many girls have given you head before?
Speaker 2:Actually my body counts very low, it might have to hide either I'm not like in the 30s or anything.
Speaker 4:It could be the same thing for me, but you guys are saying like it's like 30 people, 40 people and whatnot.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, that's the safe. That's just for the sake of my analogy.
Speaker 2:No, to be honest, to look, I'm not going to say the number, but unless you guys want to go around the table and say your body counts, no, no, she said no.
Speaker 5:Oh, oh no. She said fuck, no, ok or you can say it.
Speaker 4:We can edit it out, Because you know if I say my body count right now, they would not look at you different, but they're going to look at me different just because we're both we are different in that way.
Speaker 1:And you know, hey, mute all three mics real quick.
Speaker 2:So we did something different just now. We left that. We're going like we're doing that. We shared it with the all three of y'all.
Speaker 6:So, everybody counts me to it, let me just do my water road.
Speaker 2:You do that girl. Go ahead how you got us beat though.
Speaker 1:No, no, your butt, y'all got me beat.
Speaker 2:We do and that's cool. You know we're, we're honest with you. We've been a little more, I guess you can say, promiscuous than you have hey.
Speaker 1:I got game. What can I say? I got game, we're not. We're not League game. It comes with her, would you agree? We're not.
Speaker 6:We're not.
Speaker 2:We're not. We're not. We don't just give our parts to anybody random on the street. We don't do that. What's the requirements? There's a requirement, so we don't need to discuss all of them, but that's a requirement.
Speaker 4:Ok, definitely a requirement.
Speaker 2:Yes, absolutely the main is the main is the main is got to be there.
Speaker 4:The hygiene Oil change. Minimum, bare minimum at least yeah.
Speaker 2:You can't be a dirty ass person Like, come on, dude, like, oh, the bare minimum, no, but anyway, we're not going to disclose those numbers to you guys. We feel like that's a little personal, that's personal.
Speaker 1:This is already gotten. That's why we muted, but we'll put the subtitles, don't worry.
Speaker 2:He said we'll put the subtitles. I'm going to beat you up. We cut away and cut back.
Speaker 4:I'll see you in my ER.
Speaker 2:I'll see you in my ER, but you guessed today's slide show.
Speaker 1:No, my numbers was low. That sounds to me yeah. Nah, it's not us. I'm clean as a whistle. I'm sure she is too, Yep.
Speaker 2:Stay hydrated, stay clean. Bro, I got to be. I work at hospitals. I'm like a lie. Not that I'm like a massive hoe or anything, but there was a time frame where I would get checked every six months, because you never know man, Shit lies dormant.
Speaker 4:You know what I mean. It's going to be safe, Especially for females, like we have stuff that we could have without even having intercourse pretty much, or even that Symptoms or intercourse even yeah, she's right, could happen that way too.
Speaker 2:Their vagina is a little more complex and more difficult.
Speaker 1:But it also cleansed. It also cleansed itself. It does, it's a self-cleaning organ.
Speaker 6:Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2:We're all adults. We could talk about it without making any snickers about it.
Speaker 4:But we're nurses.
Speaker 6:So we're you guys, working at the hospital for 4 years now Exactly.
Speaker 2:And that's what does another thing about it, because I want to keep going, we're going to keep going on your topic, but I feel like we loosely got to when I asked you earlier a little bit about you. What are you willing to share with everybody and with us? Because we kind of talked about you a little bit briefly but not like In what way? Like what are you willing to share about?
Speaker 4:you or, if there's anything, you want to say yeah, if there's anything at all, we usually give you the floor.
Speaker 1:We kind of, we gave you the floor and then we somehow blew past it and got here, or if you want to say anything on what we've been saying, kind of like you got some trash to talk.
Speaker 2:Yeah, would you have anything you want to put on the record?
Speaker 4:No, I mean, I'm the type of person who's very open with opinions Pretty much, because, like I said, you can't stay firm, you can't just stay with what you believe in. In the world, where everything is changing, everybody's evolving and what not, you gave me, you got to like, make some ways, you got to make some adjustment pretty much for yourself, absolutely Because, like I'm a very I'm a very lover girl, I'm like you know, I buy them stuff.
Speaker 2:You love to be loved. Yeah, but you also love to spoil.
Speaker 4:I would cook you stuff you gave me I could stay at home Even if I'm fucking tired.
Speaker 2:You love to spoil, if I?
Speaker 4:worked 16 hours. If you want some food, I got you. I should love language you gave me, I got you. I got you with acts of service and what not.
Speaker 2:Damn girl. So you just spoil your guy.
Speaker 4:I do, I do, I spend money on them.
Speaker 2:You just want to be reciprocated, though that would be nice right.
Speaker 4:It doesn't have to even be like.
Speaker 2:That's not why you do it. That's not why you do it, but it's also the show that you Exactly so.
Speaker 4:it's just like you will have, like different type of, you know love language and what not? So, but for me now, if you would just know what Slideshow would know, you would be like she cold hearted, she very cold hearted.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna start inviting me to these breakfasts then, so I could just come over here and chill with you on.
Speaker 4:Because, like I was telling this, for like he was trying to like, let me talk to this guy, right.
Speaker 1:Hold on, you know what? No, let's get into it. It's one of the homies Damn girl and I'm like let's get into it.
Speaker 2:You want to get into it a lot tonight.
Speaker 4:If I just see this person, I'm telling you like. I'm gonna hurt him, randall.
Speaker 1:Well, we'll call him Randall, We'll just Randall.
Speaker 4:We'll just go and refer to him.
Speaker 1:Okay, so Because I said he was like Randall from Monsters.
Speaker 4:Hey, hey, hold on, Hold on, no, no, no, no, you're the one who said that.
Speaker 3:No, I said that Broken camouflage.
Speaker 2:Broken camouflage Dude. This appears as part of shit, it's my partner. Oh, okay.
Speaker 4:So I don't know why he said that.
Speaker 2:So Yo he just yeah now you're Now your boy, watch our show. You know who he is. All right, then what's about you, randall?
Speaker 4:Trust me, he's gonna send me a long ass fucking message.
Speaker 1:Damn Not like.
Speaker 4:Well, let's give him something to talk about then he's probably gonna call me, so this is your homie, you actually know him.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, this is my soul mate.
Speaker 1:This is my actual partner. I'm in a truck with that work every night. Oh shit, All right, he just loves that Every night. Every single night.
Speaker 2:Yes, is he trying to get it? You get it too, well, see so this is his problem.
Speaker 4:Hold on, let me talk.
Speaker 1:Oh sorry, Thank you so much. No, go ahead, speak your truth.
Speaker 4:This is his problem, right? I did not know him as a person who was interested in me and whatnot, but this fool was like oh, you guys should talk or you guys have more.
Speaker 1:No, he's seen you on FaceTime. He's seen you on FaceTime and he was like who's that?
Speaker 4:Because when it's not busy we. Facetime each other. So we FaceTime each other. That's what we do. So I guess it came to a point where he was interested, I guess, and I keep on telling him like so, randall she sucked her teeth in.
Speaker 2:You guys watch.
Speaker 4:Monsters Incorporated. Randall, Randall is Randall. Nothing necessary to the face, but just the features. Like we could talk earlier. You can't be coming at me like with all like.
Speaker 2:She could be limbs and legs, but still, but still.
Speaker 1:He was a snake, but still. I knew that prior. But I was tweaking his resume though.
Speaker 4:Okay that, and then I gave him a chance, correct? Because what did I say earlier?
Speaker 2:I did say give him a chance.
Speaker 4:yes, yeah, I'm not gonna close no door. So I gave him a chance. He was like but when I tell you this fool, which is would be like hi, how?
Speaker 6:are you?
Speaker 4:And the next day same thing. How?
Speaker 2:am I gonna be. It was never anything different.
Speaker 4:No, never different. And then at one time I tell him like I told him like what's your boy doing? Because like he ain't doing shit.
Speaker 3:He's not moving, he's trying to he's not moving.
Speaker 4:And then I guess he told him. So he texted me a lot that day. The next day gone, oh man.
Speaker 2:So lack of consistency.
Speaker 4:Vanished and then. So we're supposed to meet, like one Saturday I'm supposed to come down there to LA to meet up with them so we could have food and whatnot, so I can meet him person. Like I keep on telling this fool like I'm not gonna come down there for him just because I don't feel the vibe at all At all. I'm coming down there for you so we could hang out. I'll probably just meet him on the side, but it's mainly for you.
Speaker 2:Bro, your boy is striking out Like he lost the vibe to.
Speaker 4:Fleely Damn bro, and he kept on pushing and I keep on telling him every damn night I talk to him like you gotta help me out because he's gonna get hurt, he's gonna get emotional and you know what happened last night. What is it? This fool took his phone and was just going at it.
Speaker 6:You know what, or he?
Speaker 4:took your no, we were in face time and then he took his phone and just he was just going at it. He was like oh, I thought you were sick, this, this, that, and then I saw you out and then you couldn't even come down. Yeah, let me put you onto your place. That's when.
Speaker 2:I asked like why are men sassy?
Speaker 1:You know, why?
Speaker 2:That's fine. Okay, see, she was taking some shots. No, you know what?
Speaker 1:Let's get into it. Oh, okay, let's get into it. Load that gun and give me a couple shots. Load the gun and give you a couple shots, just a couple.
Speaker 3:One more, one more.
Speaker 1:I could respect somebody, just in case.
Speaker 2:I could respect somebody.
Speaker 1:Look I could respect somebody. I could talk crap about somebody to their face, not when they not here. I think we need a caller.
Speaker 2:Call who Huh, mm-hmm.
Speaker 4:Call who Call who you want to call Randall.
Speaker 1:You want to call who You're I?
Speaker 4:don't have a problem because I didn't do nothing.
Speaker 2:Okay, because if I this, is the thing you want to get to the bottom of this shit. We can. We got that feature here.
Speaker 4:You can do it Because the thing is like you are not about to pressure me in coming to meet your talk to you if I don't like you. He doesn't.
Speaker 2:No, here goes. That is true, though I did run that In his defense.
Speaker 1:I agree with that. You was telling him to apply pressure. All he was trying to do was apply that pressure.
Speaker 4:Because, like I said, I'm giving him a chance Wait.
Speaker 1:Also in his defense, he's like skin so and he got an Android. So you know how those people are.
Speaker 2:Oh my gosh, wow, that's the catch. Okay, so we're really going to get this dude on the show Because we can do that.
Speaker 1:I don't know, because he'd be setting her off, so I don't know no, because he ruined my whole, not actually.
Speaker 2:Wow.
Speaker 4:He just wasted my time, because how are you over here telling me like I should be put in your place, when you cannot even fucking drive down here to see me and meet me? Why do I have to come down and see you, sir, damn.
Speaker 2:That's true. If you really wanted to, let me come up, bro, let's not?
Speaker 1:He actually said he was down and come on, bro, uh-huh he's so, keep going, keep going.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but did he, did you actually go down here? Did you actually ask me, did you?
Speaker 2:Yeah, we have an extra microphone, bro, you could have holy bit.
Speaker 4:I know I could have came on, I didn't even think about it, you got an extra mic man, he was just Well, because you know spirit is not here right now, so oh. And then he sent me a bitch-ass text A DM.
Speaker 1:Bro what else.
Speaker 3:Bro, what else Let?
Speaker 4:me, let me like. He didn't even like, but it was more of like. What did he say?
Speaker 1:A bitch-ass text, not a regular text. They weren't dating him, but he basically fucked up with her bro Really.
Speaker 2:Well, she just said he sent her a bitch-ass text. So that's not a regular text, a bitch-ass text. You know that's not bro.
Speaker 4:That's, I think he blocked me already.
Speaker 2:Damn, it happened, it went down man.
Speaker 1:Hey, don't play with them, liscans, they don't need them.
Speaker 2:What is down in the DM.
Speaker 4:But he said something, no, no no, his Instagram is deion Deion.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like deion oh and it'll pop up Okay okay.
Speaker 3:Unless you block these oh.
Speaker 4:He was like, he sent me this suss and he says Hi, Ms Actress, you should win a Golden Globe.
Speaker 1:He was calling her an actor like fake Wow.
Speaker 2:So basically he was calling you Bro. Why do people? How did he think that was gonna go? Do you even think she was gonna give that a response? Sometimes I'd be wondering why somebody's right and stupid shit like that. What did you think she was gonna do? You're gonna supercharge a rant. She's gonna come at you and just.
Speaker 1:I wish she was here now. Dang, Sorry bro.
Speaker 2:I'm not trying to roast you dawg, I'm just being real. Why would you say that? Have you watched? Every boy watches this later, man, I'm just keeping real what you do Like we have a microphone. We have a microphone dawg. That's a little more respectable.
Speaker 4:He can come down At least. Maybe he would come down this.
Speaker 2:Yo, we can have a part two. What? No he already You'll be deep down to come back, right, oh yeah, whether it's with the other guy yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:See okay, yeah, no, no, he knows, he knows. I think he watches, but he's saying he's more of a psych to come on. Though he's more of a psych to come on.
Speaker 4:He. Actually, if you actually put him over here, I'm pretty sure he has a lot to talk about. No, he does.
Speaker 6:He does, he does.
Speaker 4:Because he be saying he be talking to Like when we were having conversation. He be putting his two cents too.
Speaker 1:Okay, yeah, try to grab my phone and walk off with it just to talk to it yeah.
Speaker 2:Oh shit, okay, Well, yeah, yeah, yeah. That hell the hell. This shit goes south so bad, so it was mainly his fault then.
Speaker 4:It's the sassiness man.
Speaker 2:The sassiness it's just, or let me not use that, let me not use that word.
Speaker 4:His attitude or his how he saw things was just not very Manlike. Ah, I see, nah bro.
Speaker 1:He's a little child, he's a little child.
Speaker 4:If you ask him, he's a little child Like we were supposed to meet up like two or three times and I flaked on him just because I have some stuff to do, you get me. And he took that like all right, cool, you get me, it's all right. If my girlfriends were like Come on now.
Speaker 2:You wouldn't respond that way, right? I know?
Speaker 4:We're adults. Yeah, we're adults.
Speaker 2:We have library and you're communicating too, like you're being. Yeah, we're, what do you?
Speaker 4:like y'all do. This is why I came to know we're not freaking. 12 years old, who's gonna like?
Speaker 1:But is it different?
Speaker 4:when there's somebody.
Speaker 1:I think it's different when there's somebody you like, though, that you're crushing on.
Speaker 4:Yeah, yes and no, because I kind of feel like no, they have people that I'm trying to talk to or they're trying to talk to him, and then there was they're the one who's cancelling on me.
Speaker 2:Well, there you go See, then how's that gonna make her feel, though, and she's not a priority now, and I'm gonna be like okay, it's okay.
Speaker 4:Like you know, you get me. You probably have some more important stuff to do. I'm not gonna require you.
Speaker 2:Are you saying like, yeah, you wouldn't take it.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I'm not gonna require you to freaking be, to put me as a priority when you have a shitload of stuff to do. You get me like I'm not your wife, I'm not God either. You get me like I'm not your mom, I'm not your sister. So you just trying to like get to know me, and if that time does not, if God does not allow that time, and then it's just not gonna happen right now.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's just how it is.
Speaker 4:I'm not gonna get butthurt just because she canceled on me All I know is.
Speaker 1:He was really crushing. That's all I know.
Speaker 4:How many people are crushing on me? And then I'll be. I don't even be responding under DMs, yo, the most that they're gonna get at me is a scene and I could actually show you, guys, you see, I wasn't asking you.
Speaker 2:you need to show us that you put some dudes on blast right now.
Speaker 4:the DMs Like I have people like I still have people from like way back that's trying to DM me and like they would just what would they get? Like I have people like this trying to get at me Damn hard eyes Trying to get at me and still would not get a response.
Speaker 2:Don't worry, yes, 2.4 million Damn.
Speaker 4:Wait what. Look at that Yo. Okay.
Speaker 2:Football players bro what. So I'm telling you it's not so that stuff doesn't impress you though.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I don't give a shit. I don't want to talk to you.
Speaker 6:Man that's right.
Speaker 1:I've never seen that before so that's just me being real.
Speaker 4:He said well, I've never seen that before.
Speaker 2:Bro, there's really a lot going on in people's DMs. You don't know, we don't know about.
Speaker 4:If I'm actually trying to talk to you, trying to respond to your text, however long it may take me if I respond to you.
Speaker 2:No, that's true, I hey Wow.
Speaker 4:That should tell you something.
Speaker 2:Blown both the minds right now, because you weren't used to seeing that I'm not used to seeing that either.
Speaker 4:That's crazy so. Yo and I could keep on scrolling.
Speaker 2:She's not playing bro.
Speaker 4:We can look at different numbers. He said wow.
Speaker 2:The mind is blown right now. Yeah, dude, who's? That? Who's that full player? She's like I'm not embarrassed, don't be scared of that. No, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Anyway, I won't make you revisit that, but that's, he's blown away. I was kind of like damn. You know she got shied out.
Speaker 1:No, that was a flex. She did that on purpose. She pulled up somebody, look she pulled up somebody. Look at that it's a flex, Somebody no.
Speaker 4:Bestie. Your best friend is not ugly too. Come on now.
Speaker 1:Somebody that could pull up that. Somebody with 2.4 million followers trying to get at them. Bro, that's a flex.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean, that's a lot. Actually, that is low key Can you do that. Yeah, well, no, I don't got no one talking to me that has that many followers. Yeah, yeah, I don't know what I'm not. I feel like for women it's different man.
Speaker 4:That's crazy.
Speaker 2:When you're not a bad looking girl dude, that's what it is. Man, that comes with the territory.
Speaker 4:And I'm not that type of female just like you know all showy and what.
Speaker 2:You don't give me that vibe either.
Speaker 4:No, I'm a very like. Like he said, I'm one of the guys you give me like that's crazy.
Speaker 2:He's still, he's still like oh shit.
Speaker 4:I can't keep going. I can still like look up for some viewers.
Speaker 2:The show is another one. If you don't mind, that's a little you got. You got a slideshow here, A little flabbergasted over it.
Speaker 1:Bro, that's crazy, bro, you can't believe it.
Speaker 2:You guys are actually putting them on blasts like they're Instagram. No, no, no, well, no, no, no, no, no we just put somebody on, blasts like straight up to. We did Someone that she was talking to? Yeah, she's going to watch it. It's okay. We don't give a shit. It's a timeless talk, bro. We don't play that here, man. Matter of fact, we're going to hashtag. Leave all this in right now. We're not cutting this out.
Speaker 1:No, I mean we didn't, we didn't say any names.
Speaker 2:No, we didn't say no names. So so if you don't mind us asking, so if you said, because you, saito wants to know now what other person did, what other major do you have any like any football stars in here? You got, you got some other actors, actors hit on you we don't know about, like he was actually a football player and he was an actor model. I saw that hit a little hit a little blue check to.
Speaker 4:That's what he was.
Speaker 3:Damn.
Speaker 2:And it's not the one that you buy, because it was you know you could buy that one, yeah, yeah, but you saw on the followers, the followers the interactions and whatnot. Yeah, he got verified without having to pay for it. He's like, yeah, no, he's verified different.
Speaker 1:No, right, that's the thing I verified back then. You're right, now you can get verified.
Speaker 2:I mean back then you couldn't get verified by paying for it.
Speaker 1:You had to be established, or just forget the verification of the followers. It's a big one too. Have to, you know. You'll say have to wear a little bit. A lot of people follow this. That's crazy. I've never seen that before.
Speaker 4:So that's what I'm saying If I'm talking to you right now, baby, baby.
Speaker 1:She's giving it real with you.
Speaker 2:But then can they also.
Speaker 1:Can they also trust that you're not talking to them either?
Speaker 2:Now you might have made all the man, now you might have made that person if there is a person, of course, yeah, like.
Speaker 4:I've never, I've never, I've never cheated in any of my relationships before, like when I tell you I'm a lover girl if you want me to like, actually you know what. I'm not going to do that because I was in a very toxic relationship before where I had to like cut down all my social media and like yeah cut off, like all of my friends, just because he didn't like it.
Speaker 4:I'm not going to do that to you, but what you're going, what we're going to do, is we're going to establish church. If you want to get all my passwords and whatnot, go ahead, you do you. You get me like I'm. I'm all up for it, cause, like I said, I'm not trying to play no more, I'm trying to be loved.
Speaker 6:So she hung up, she hung up, she retired from Jersey.
Speaker 4:Reassurance and what I'm a flight to where everyone made a flight. You want to go to Antarctica? I got you baby.
Speaker 2:Brother, she didn't retire the Jersey she burned it she like she lit that bitch on fire.
Speaker 4:So that's just what I am Like if. But if you're going to feel, if you're going to be with me, knowing the type of person I am, I'm a very confident person. If you're going to be with me, I need you to be as confident as I am, cause if not, it's not going to work out.
Speaker 2:There you go. Yeah, something's gotta get Tell your boy. Tell your boy Randall there, something's gotta get. Tell your boy Randall dropped the book.
Speaker 4:I would carry myself, I will carry myself properly in a way like you're going to be, like damn, do I really deserve this person? And that's that should be. That goes to all females. What? What are you looking at?
Speaker 2:She's like it goes for all females. Look bro, you know, just restart the computer Right Crazy.
Speaker 4:Just flabbergasted.
Speaker 2:Yeah, bro, you good. Yeah, he's like a.
Speaker 1:No, I just like what you. No, that's, that's great. I've never seen it before.
Speaker 6:He's still chipping on the two I have more on like tech, on my tech talk.
Speaker 2:Like I have more in them, I believe. I believe my cohost and friend here is still flabbergasted, yeah that's great, I just never seen. Well, I get it. That's what definitely threw mom. I mean I need to a little bit. I ain't got a lot. I was like man, women do really got it like that.
Speaker 1:I mean it's. I've never seen it before.
Speaker 2:It happened it exists, bro, but that's good though. I should tell you something about her, though. So humble she is, like she said, that's why she was. I mean, she was joking right now when she was like baby, if I'm weak, but I know why she was doing that. It's almost like I could have that shit, but then again it could be even deeper. She might even know how superficial that all is, right. It'd be bullshit. That guy's not going to stay low. She knows that. She knows that he's not trying to make her wife Come on now. He might he might, he could.
Speaker 2:But it's a blessing and a curse, right? Because then it could be something as if well, maybe that she's going to think, going to a thinking. This fool's not taking me seriously.
Speaker 4:But, like I said, it's still my choice. Like you get me, like that's my choice, Like I could give him a chance, but do I want to?
Speaker 2:Do you want to? I mean, yeah, at least that you could think going into that world. It could be, but you don't know what the possibilities are.
Speaker 4:I'm not going to put myself to that stress. My patients are stressing me enough.
Speaker 6:Yeah, oh yeah, you got enough of you.
Speaker 4:This fool's stressing me enough, damn.
Speaker 2:What'd you do to her?
Speaker 3:But yeah, I'm just black. He said I'm just black.
Speaker 2:Brr, brr, you're stupid bro he said something, oh shit you're just black bruh.
Speaker 3:You're just stupid.
Speaker 2:I'm black with you. No, bro, you're stressing people up. Bro, can't have that over here, bro.
Speaker 4:So, no matter how bad bitch you were trying to talk to, how sexy they are, how good looking they are, big, tiny, pretty or ugly, you get me like, if they want to talk to you, they're going to talk to you back and no matter. That's no matter how you look to, Because, like I said before, I've dated some questionable creatures before.
Speaker 2:Whoa questionable creatures bruh.
Speaker 4:I'm telling you my family members would be like what were you thinking yeah seriously, that's how bad it was yes.
Speaker 2:What are you doing Ling Ling? Why? Why him?
Speaker 1:But that's why I say the social media. I think like Cloud's judgment.
Speaker 2:But, like I said, at the same time, I respect you for it Because, at the end of the day they're not dating him. You are Exactly so if she found something that you wanted in some way. All Ling Ling's exes out there. If you watch this, if you guys come across this video and you see, her know that you took a W, that you had a shot.
Speaker 4:You got at least Exactly you had your shot Exactly. You lost it.
Speaker 2:Even when her family was running against you, she still gave you a shot, dog, you know what? Let's do a sort of clap for all the people that just struck out. Bro, what are you doing? Ling Ling, it's OK, bro, we're acknowledging you right now. All you exes out there. That's crazy. He said why'd you give him a hand clap? He said I really need to restart now.
Speaker 4:We need you back, sir.
Speaker 2:No, I'm back, You're here bro.
Speaker 1:You didn't.
Speaker 2:You're back, right.
Speaker 1:I need the newest update, but I'm back.
Speaker 2:You are back. Here's the newest update, but now that I know you're officially back on, though, it's because we hit you with the- here present.
Speaker 1:You're back. Yeah, I'm back.
Speaker 2:Boy's here and he's alive, All right.
Speaker 1:Good to go.
Speaker 2:Here in the flesh, ok, so as we get past her fan with a million followers, as we get past Ling Ling's fan with a million followers, 2.4 million 2.4 million, excuse me, With the watch they're going to be like looking at more followers and they're going to try to decipher.
Speaker 6:They're going to try to see on my legs and whatnot.
Speaker 1:But that's if you want. That's if you want your stuff.
Speaker 2:Are you cool with this tagging you?
Speaker 1:No, ok see.
Speaker 2:I don't mind. I don't mind, I don't mind.
Speaker 4:But you're not going to see him. I am followers and I'm not following him, you might get a few bold guys who watch this.
Speaker 2:He's mostly females. Or you might have a few females that like what they see.
Speaker 1:But she just said change the game. Bro, what she just said change the game. So he follows her, but she doesn't even follow him.
Speaker 4:No, no, no, I'm saying for that specific guy. Oh dude, for that specific guy, he does not Sorry, I'm saying that he does not follow me.
Speaker 2:He doesn't follow you, yeah, oh, but he just reached out to you.
Speaker 4:Yeah, because I have a screenshot when he followed me first because I was like this is a joke, this is literally a joke, so I screenshot it. When he was starting liking my stuff, so I screenshot. I'm like you know, maybe this is one for the books you get me.
Speaker 2:I want for the books. You're funny, she's like I had to screenshot.
Speaker 4:But then when he noticed that I didn't follow him back, why didn't he follow back? For what I'm not interested in you. Well, I mean, yeah, I don't know you Like, if you see, if you, if you, if, if ever you guys are going to go to my Instagram page. Right, my following is like a 1500. It's not much, but then the only following that I have is like 300.
Speaker 4:Mm, that's it Like the only, the only people that I want to see actually on my feet. That's it, Because everything else I could look up, like you know, on the magnifying glass search bar, whatnot. So, if I, if I don't, if I haven't seen you in person, I don't vibe with you, or whatnot, or if you're just trying to get at me like you're going to send a following list.
Speaker 1:Just keep it real, though, right. I mean yeah, but at least it's straight up. You can be mad at that. Yeah, I'm telling you, I'm just like you know man, this is this I don't like social, not for dating, not for dating.
Speaker 2:Damn, I use that to watch all my aliens and so, ultimately, ultimately, you don't, you don't, you don't, you don't, you don't like apps.
Speaker 1:Obviously you don't like that.
Speaker 2:You prefer the old fashioned way of, I think.
Speaker 4:I think I did try. I have a question, though. You don't like seeing those pictures though.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you see. I see you as jiggling in his face when you open this phone, because I'm Instagram goes out good ass. I don't know, I don't know, what's in your algorithm, but she's like you know that I mean no, I could open up my Instagram or whatever right now. You know the aliens Bible she know all my posters.
Speaker 1:Bible means I don't know where your mind is at Child of God.
Speaker 2:Look at his face. I'm a child of God.
Speaker 4:I'm sorry, pastor, I got a meme.
Speaker 1:I got a meme, it's one of those stick figures holding the Bible like this. It's like stairs, pastor Lee, there's pastor.
Speaker 2:You're so stupid, oh my God, oh shit man.
Speaker 6:You know what though.
Speaker 2:I would say this though man, we, we because we're going to wrap pretty soon here. Man, I was going to touch base on last thing I want to say with you guys. Talk about with you guys really, on your, on your topic sideshow, what do you? What do you really believe? Do you think it's an illusion, or do you think it's an illusion?
Speaker 1:For me, yes, yes to what?
Speaker 2:That it's an illusion. Yeah, why Give us short last summer?
Speaker 1:here I would say Don don, don't, just get it.
Speaker 4:I didn't get that sound effect, I didn't get that.
Speaker 2:I didn't get that one. That's actually a sound effect too. It's fair point she brought up which I agree, I was getting there too Okay.
Speaker 1:Everything does go back to religion because obviously God seen it as a problem Back then. You know, way back when, in the middle near East, your, your parents would choose who your wife is or who your husband is Like, the parents would get together and, okay, I see the quality in her, they already been through it. I see the quality in her, I see the quality in him. Parents would get together, make something happen.
Speaker 1:And then there was there really was no divorce back then. But like now, I don't know, we adopted the idea of a divorce. I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I don't know. I mean we adopted this thing where, like, we could play house until we're ready to get married. And then I brought up where, before already, playing the house was the only difference is putting some papers and getting the government in between this.
Speaker 2:Okay, so you're saying like, like real on paper like paper, like just starting to paper now.
Speaker 1:Now we're exclusively, you're just for me and I'm for you, but other than that, we just playing house.
Speaker 2:I think. I think okay, so are you done?
Speaker 1:You finished with your answer and want to because I know a lot of people they say they just don't want to get married because I know if it don't work out you got it?
Speaker 4:Well, nothing, oh shit.
Speaker 1:I got to worry about you leaving half.
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying, like if they don't get married, they don't have nothing to worry about.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it doesn't make them a not real relationship though, so that's that's where.
Speaker 5:I argue, I think I think her and I are on the same page.
Speaker 2:I think you're the one with this. That thing's a solution, brother.
Speaker 1:No, yeah, I think so, but then, like, like, we got to agree on it. It all goes back to religion, which you believe.
Speaker 6:Yeah.
Speaker 2:So agree, not agree to disagree, but agree in that way.
Speaker 6:Cause. I agree.
Speaker 2:That's what they agree about, but also agree about it being what you believe in honestly, ultimately, whether it's real or not Right, but do you guys hold?
Speaker 1:do you guys do you guys hold the Christian perspective of it, or what? What do you guys hold? Well, because you said because then you don't have to get married.
Speaker 4:No, you know, I think you, just you, just you have more. I'm not saying you're wrong, but I feel like you're basing it off of something where you believe in, so it clouds your judgment on what's actually going on around. That makes sense. No, I get it. I get it, so I'm not, I'm not questioning what you believe. And I'm just saying, like you know, like you are so focused on that and your idea of it that sometimes you don't hear or you don't welcome other, you don't welcome the world perspective of it.
Speaker 1:Well, no, I can see, cause I like to listen to it. But ultimately, exactly listening. Yeah.
Speaker 4:It's different from actually like learning and understanding and welcoming.
Speaker 2:No, that's perspective no, but that's the thing.
Speaker 1:I could, I could, I could understand it but I don't have to agree with it.
Speaker 4:That's true too, you know perfectly fine. No, no, no, no, that's what I'm saying, I think that's what's going on here.
Speaker 1:But but I'm asking are you guys on this side of the fence or that side of the fence? I agree.
Speaker 4:I mean, I I believe in marriage. Just so you guys know, like Filipinos or Philippines, we don't have any divorce, we have annulment and that she will fucking drain your bank.
Speaker 2:Yeah, annulment.
Speaker 4:Yep Annulment that will you will have to go through hell before you get your marriage off.
Speaker 2:Wow. So it's like divorce, but it's a bigger or harder process.
Speaker 4:It's it's way harder, way, way harder, because people doesn't believe in separation, when you guys already married, because you guys are supposedly sacred. You guys are supposed to be one, you guys are supposed to, you know, venture the world together.
Speaker 2:Find a way to wake it up, yep.
Speaker 4:So you know if you guys already ended up, if you guys agreed, you guys said yes, and I do in front of God, in front of what you believe in.
Speaker 4:And then you try and yeah, and you should try to break that apart Like you just can, bro, like you look like fools. Period, you get me, but we don't. We don't. We're not judging no more, especially in America. We're not judging the world we are right now. We're not judging no more. You get me. Like divorce is just a sign of like paid, let pay like 200, 300. Marriage is done yeah, that's how it is. You get married for like 200, 300. And if you don't want it, let me take that back. And you, gucci, you get me. So I believe in marriage, I believe in a relationship, I believe like there's somebody there for me that's going to want to spend his whole life with me, have kids with me, you know, create all memories and whatnot. That's what I believe, it and it's like for me, like marriage is one thing that's going to secure that place, not just for me, but for my family too, my future kids, cause she, I can't have my kid going around saying like, oh yeah, I have a dad, but that they're not married.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Okay, I see what you're saying.
Speaker 4:You get me like, especially coming from my Filipino culture, where everything is family, everything is family.
Speaker 3:They believe heavily in that. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 4:So I was raised to be, I was raised to be a wife, I was raised to be a good sister, I was raised to be a mother. So that's what I'm going to stick with.
Speaker 2:Okay, that's fair, I respect it, man. All right, man, that was a lot, whoa. Hey, I appreciate that breakdown and I know everybody else does, so thank you for that. You feel you?
Speaker 1:Okay, you're about to go.
Speaker 2:You're about to do your yeah, okay, so me, as far as, as far as I go right, I agree with what you guys are saying. I agree on both ends. You know, I see where you're coming from, I see where he's coming from, I do feel like a relationship is real. I mean, even if you put it on paperwork or not, I feel like it's real, honestly, regardless whether it's an agreement physically or emotionally on a paper. However you be, once you commit to somebody, that's officially a relationship, you know what I mean, that's how I feel about it.
Speaker 2:That's what I feel like it is. I feel like that's what God meant when he was saying you know, holy matrimony.
Speaker 1:That's probably what he was. That's marriage, though, but he was telling my boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 2:Okay, yeah. So you tell me you don't do? You see, you don't think that that relationship is real until they get married.
Speaker 1:According to law? What by the book? If we say by the book, yeah, by the book.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but I mean at the same time you're not going to just marry someone that you like either. That's not smart.
Speaker 1:No, but that's you know. But that's why I like it. That's why I like when I say it's not a real thing. It's like where, where's the structure? At Like where where's the?
Speaker 4:That's where you're building it, yeah.
Speaker 1:No, but that's why where's the boundaries? Where, like this is how we're doing it by the book, like the book will say, like it doesn't say, you can't do this, and then it comes down again to what you believe in, what your boundary is at. Well, let me ask you guys, this Is there is there any religion where like like, for example, in the Quran or in this or in that that talks specifically about marriage Cause?
Speaker 1:we know in the Bible it does, but I'm not sure if any other, but everybody's getting married, but I only know if it's being in the Christian Bible.
Speaker 4:I personally can ask that, cause I don't. I don't be going to religions like that, that deep, so I really cannot have a say on it. I'm going to just look like a you know, I don't know what I'm talking about. I don't want that cause. I stick to what I say, but from what I know, like you know, god says like be fruitful and like, have that. So you, of course, automatically you're going to have to have just one person. You get me. He God did not say be fruitful with different females.
Speaker 2:Exactly yeah.
Speaker 4:So it's like but of course other people would take that like all right, cool.
Speaker 6:He said this Like, yeah, let me go out there and say the world now.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and now for sure.
Speaker 1:Let me get real yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, man, you know, a shout out to us we did good. Today, though we were on the same page. Well, not, that's not true.
Speaker 4:We're on the same page.
Speaker 2:He'll not say page at us at all, but I mean, for the most part it was entertaining though.
Speaker 1:I agree, I'm like towards the end.
Speaker 2:This is the conversation that never ends, bro Legit not no pun intended. It's like this is a particular conversation. It never ends. There's not just the show, but the conversation itself never ends. It's a debate that can go on forever. So part two or three of a hundred or whatever. We just have to do another one. No, we do. You definitely got to come back.
Speaker 4:She said hell yeah.
Speaker 2:I had fun, I had fun Okay.
Speaker 1:I'm glad you got to bring Randall next time or somebody, but we'll have two guests next time.
Speaker 2:I'm down. Okay, we'll have someone else come on with you.
Speaker 1:All right, there's someone you want to bring or someone he wants to bring. Probably. Well, I got to bring some. No, I was going to say maybe another girl.
Speaker 4:You guys are going to get roses. Well, first of all, first of all, no.
Speaker 1:I got to bring somebody because you're two on the same team.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Okay, yeah, okay, we'll see about that All right. So, anyway, before we go, though, is there anything what's going on in your life that you want to share with them? Is there anything at all that you want to put out there? You know, before we go, anything you want to say?
Speaker 4:Since we're talking about our relationship, I would just say this like for females who's trying to who's you know, dms are flowing and whatnot Don't be pressured to talk back to them. Don't be pressured on going out on dates with them. Don't be pressured on getting to know them. And for guys, if you actually want to pursue this female and not just fuck her because, like I said before, if you're just trying to get fucked, you're going to get fucked. So if you're trying, actually trying to get this, trying to get to know this person, just be sincere, that's all, hey her being this for restart something again, because you did not just victimize women and put the blame on no, no, no.
Speaker 1:I'm saying like, I'm saying you just told women take the time, everything's okay. No, no, no, can you let me finish? Let her finish. It sounds like it was finished.
Speaker 4:Can you let me finish? Let her finish it up man.
Speaker 2:We're going to go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, sorry.
Speaker 1:She did not just shit on me, yey.
Speaker 4:What?
Speaker 4:And for guys, and for guys who actually have like a legit heart and trying to like impress females that they're trying to get at and trying to like have a relationship, but they're not give up Cause, like a lot of girls, like you guys said, they have this bad bitch mentality. They have this I don't, I don't need no man I'm. Sometimes I'd be like that, I'd be like that, which sucks, cause I won't you get me, I won't ask for any of your help. And the problem is like for guys it's like they keep on offering You're supposed to do, just do it.
Speaker 4:You know, you can if you, just if you actually legit, you know cause I have guys that actually like do you want this, do you want that? Or simple as like food, for example. Like do you want this, do you want that? Like I'm always going to say no, I'm never going to say yes to you, but if I, like you, put that food in my plate, on my table, I'm going to eat that.
Speaker 1:No, you get me, so that the night you took it and gave it to the next person. Oh my God.
Speaker 4:Anyways. So he's just a whole ass hater Seriously.
Speaker 6:Where the liver at.
Speaker 1:You see that that person that brought the food and she gave it to the next person, that's the guy with the flowers. Stick the flowers to somebody else.
Speaker 2:All right, man. Anyway, I'm sorry, did you finish and give?
Speaker 4:a chance to. I'm going to shut my mouth until we get the part to it, because somebody's hating All right Now it's my turn.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, no, we're done. Okay, we got to go.
Speaker 4:We got a party to go.
Speaker 1:Guys, guys, be the, be the strong individual.
Speaker 4:I should.
Speaker 1:That you guys could be I should. I know you guys were hurt by women growing up. You guys were taught that you know. I'm a lot, bring in brothers, oh yeah.
Speaker 2:I'm going to walk off.
Speaker 4:Yeah, the truth hurt, don't even put. The Bible says what's going on. I haven't hurt anybody. I haven't cheated on anybody, so you're going to say that? You're really going to say that to me, don't worry guys, Keep going.
Speaker 1:You know the joy of the Lord is your strength. Amen.
Speaker 4:Amen.
Speaker 1:Preach and don't worry, keep going. The road might be hard, but God got that special one for you. Women Do better.
Speaker 2:Whoa Do better Okay.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like shit.